I saw your exchange with the OP @havenoidea on the other thread so I thought I would comment here because you seemed confused about why your comment might land as offensive (and, I might add, gross).
I will write this assuming that you are curious and want some feedback?
First, the OP asked about social life, which is a very common question on CC and I haven’t seen any other response that took it to a sexual place like that. And you did that 2 sentences after mentioning LGBTQ+ “folk”. It felt to me like you were then describing their social lives in those sexual terms. Can you see how it might read like that?
And second, you created a sexual visual, including hormonal, “perp walk” and drunk with glitter in their hair regarding the OP’s 18 year old daughter. (That is who this thread is for.) Making an assumption that you are a middle aged man and a stranger, can you see the ick factor with that?
Hope this helps! Not sure if I am correctly representing the OP’s feelings on this - this is how I felt reading your post.