Responding to my summons (thank you, Thumper!)
I think going wide is a better strategy than going deep for someone in HS who doesn’t know what she wants to do. I tell the young kids I counsel “unless you want to be an airline pilot or a neurosurgeon, the specific skills aren’t as important as the general competencies”. Which is of course an exaggeration, but I see kids getting caught up in nomenclature very early on.
One of my kids has a job at a company which didn’t exist a few years ago, using a technology which didn’t exist a few years ago. Kid leads a large tech team- has never taken a single programming class. One of my kids did a total 180 degrees between undergrad and grad school and so the current career has nothing to do with anything that happened between the ages of 18-22. I am a former Classics major who has had a 35+ year corporate career, mostly in Talent, HR and recruiting.
It’s not that it “doesn’t matter” because it does- it’s just that HS is so different from college. Nobody studies Sustainability or Urban Planning or “How to break things quickly” in college, even though those are very hot topics in the work world.
Of the young people I know who don’t sit at a desk and get told what to do:
1- Environmental consultant to the real estate/construction industry. He was a poli sci major but now wears a hard hat.
2-Grant writer for an advocacy organization. Pre-covid, she traveled frequently to meet funders, meet the people who were helped by her organization, go to conferences to become a subject matter expert in her area.
3- Director of Community Education for a small museum/cultural organization. Art History major.
4- News producer for a major network. History major (very, very common major in the media industry, including speech writers, policy analysts, etc.)
Just a smattering- and of course, lots of nurses, NP’s, and a very talented young man who majored in music and is waiting to get Matched for a residency in cardiology.
Read, read, read. The more your D reads (New Yorker, Atlantic, Vanity Fair, even Vogue) the more she’ll be exposed to cool ideas and neat professions and the people who do them.
At least she’s not living in the 1950’s when my mom (and some of her very brilliant friends) were told to “Ace” the typing test in HS so that if they couldn’t land a job after college, they’d have something “to fall back on”.