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I am ANNOYED by the fact there are other schools that may have met my full need without loans and Cornell said they would and didn't, and am asking if this is normal, i.e. do all 0 efc students graduate with $12,000 in debt. I will try this once again: $12,000 is a great bargain for a Cornell education.
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<p>You have absolutely no reason to be annoyed at Cornell. None. Zip. Nada. Cornell has met your full personal need to be a student at Cornell. Nobody ever said that Cornell would be required to help you support your family in the process.</p>
<p>Realize this: Many positive EFC students graduate with debt. My family had an EFC of $22k and I graduated with $15k in debt. And many 0 EFC students likewise graduate in debt as well due to various reasons -- e.g. they didn't want to work as much, or they wanted to spend a semester abroad where they wouldn't be able to have a job. But yet, many 0 EFC students now graduate with no debt because their student jobs cover all of their incidental expenses.</p>
<p>As has been stated before, aside from the military academies, every single school in this country has a self-help component to its financial aid package. And on average, you are expected to contribute around $3k a year to the costs of your education. For the most part, this is non-negotiable. If you can go to school, you can have a job. And if you don't want a job, you can take out loans. </p>
<p>But by all means, if you think there are schools who will absolve you of the self-help component, you are free to transfer out. I know Princeton, pretty much the richest school in the country, requires $2300 of self-help funding during the academic year and another $1000 over the summer. So under your circumstances you would be $13,200 in the hole at Princeton.</p>
<p>If you have legitimate questions about the financial aid process, you can set up an appointment in Day Hall. </p>
<p>But coming on a message board and complaining about your 'unfair' financial aid package even though it comprises the same terms and conditions that every other student on campus faces is not going to garner a lot of respect. </p>
<p>What's particularly lamentable about your case is that you seem more interested in being annoyed at Cornell about your financial situation than inquiring about what proactive steps can be taken to help to alleviate your burden and help your situation. This is where your energy should lie... not in being annoyed by a simple policy.</p>
<p>I've already suggested the need for you to talk over everything you are facing with somebody in student services. And I've already mentioned ROTC, but have you looked into becoming an RA (free board, food, and stipend!), living in a co-op (which offers incredible cost savings for room and board!), or even volunteering for the Ithaca Fire Department (which would come with a free room)?</p>