<p>I made some friends in the introduction week but when normal classes started they were asigned to another group from the one I got in, and I didn't though it was a big deal, and I said "well you dont know anyone in this new group, it`s ok you'll meet them later" so I let time pass, and it's been 4 weeks and I've talked to some people but nothing else and now everybody has their own group friends , I sit alone in almost every class and I know its my fault and sometimes I think that is better this way because I don't have any distractions but honestly I wished that I could have friends like a normal person.</p>
<p>it’s only your first semester. relax! and go out and find some clubs you are interested in. If you join a club there will be people who share your interests and there are probably others in the same situation as you looking for a friend. If you find someone you get along with ask them if they wanna get lunch with you sometime. Chances are they will say yes. Just get out of your dorm room and be where people are. i know its kinda awkward but trust me you will feel so much better once you make some friends. Also if you are in class you can always start a conversation with the person next to you.</p>
<p>that’s the thing, most of my classes are with the same people and most them alredy are like bff or they knew before college, so everyone in the classroom have their own group of friends and i just sit there alone</p>
<p>lolilulztardis, it’s always hard to start in the middle of the year. A lot of friendships have solidified, and the weather makes everything worse. I’m guessing you’re on the shy side, too? I was too. I still am. So the classroom and the caf might not be the best places to try to meet people.</p>
<p>I think cg95’s first suggestion is the best. Join 1-2 clubs. Not just any club, though. As she says, something that speaks to your interest, where you can let all that wonderful nerdiness come out and know it won’t be a problem. Or maybe you think you might get interested in something if you learned more about it. A lot of clubs welcome newcomers because it lets them get all nerdy when they explain things.</p>