OP, we al have different perspectives and experieinces here. That’s why you’re getting different answers. Ultimately, you have to decide what’s right for her, what grows her toward her college goals, and what’s reasonably manageable.
I don’t think most parents or kids can say the ECs are “up to par” just based on one high school you know. And if you do plan to aim her for a tippy top, “par” isn’t it.