<p>well I am not sure where all of that ^^^^ came from...</p>
<p>and I am certainly not trying to freak out "all the newbie moms and dads"....</p>
<p>what I was trying to convey is quite different... and that the lure to the academies needs to go far deeper than the "free education"....</p>
<p>because it can end up costing them dearly... and by this I am certainly not talking about "whatever stuff goes on in their heads"....</p>
<p>what I was talking about is that case in Memorial Hall where even you found yourself so profoundly moved...</p>
<p>I am talking about the poor mother that gave a heart-wrenching speech at this year's Military Ball... who lost her son just a few short months following commissioning in his first tour of duty... and while she clearly remains the very, very proud mother of a wonderful and blessed son, I can't help but think that she, too, has at some point questioned if the cost was just "too high" to bear.......</p>
<p>I am talking about the walls in the dorms at West Point honoring their graduates who have paid the "ultimate price".... and the wall that has been just recently cleared and remains empty....awaiting the names from Afghanastan and Iraq to be added........ </p>
<p>add to that the brave souls fighting their way through Bethesda and other places to return to some state of "normalicy".....</p>
<p>what I am trying to do is make sure that those looking at the "free education" are rethinking that mentality....because they really need to! This is NOT COLLEGE!!!! </p>
<p>I am certainly NOT knocking your husband, his nature, his service, or his mental state.... I met the man, remember?????</p>
<p>honestly!</p>
<p>And don't doubt for a minute that we have not done the very same soul-searching..... and challenged our son to do the same.... the Oath of Office is a very serious one- one that is not taken lightly.... and I certainly hope one that is not taken to take advantage of the "free" education!!!! And while I am sure our son will value his education at USNA, I pray to GOD that he does, in fact, come out "whole" at the end of the process....be that 10, 15, 20 or more years from now....and to make sure this is crystal clear, by "whole" I mean LIVING AND BREATHING!!! ANYTHING short of that we will deal with!!!!!</p>
<p>Really PM....</p>