<p>I want to start off by saying that I am not posting this for the purpose of complaining; I just want to offer some insight that I really, really wish had been presented to me before I came here. I came here with such a positive attitude. I was nervous, but so hopeful and excited. Then, reality hit me like a Peterbilt.</p>
<p>There are a lot of issues that I have with this place, from the computer sciencs/EECS program to the campus in general.</p>
<p>First, let us talk about something that should be no surprise, but is certainly worth mentioning: I literally have no time to ever have fun. I have been out one weekend this entire semester. The amount of dense, coarse, heavy work that is assigned for each technical course is orders of magnitude beyond what one would ever expect or hope for. If one of your reasons for liking Cal is the fact that you like SF, I will tell you that based upon my experience so far, SF might as well be on the opposite side of the globe. I have been keeping a detailed log of every hour of every day for the past two weeks, and on average, I am working 15 hours per day on school work. This is accounting for eating/sanity breaks. I know others who spend even more time than that.</p>
<p>Another issue is that the people in this major have a strong proclivity to isolation and seclusion. I do not think that a thriving social life is a possibility in this department. They skip fun events in order to stay at home and study or write code, and you better do the same if you want to compete with them (which you must, since things are curved).</p>
<p>In just a few months, this place has completely changed me. Even friends whom I talk to from back home notice it. I'm miserable, and surrounded by a lot of people who are also miserable, but a lot of them have simply gotten used to it and grown complacent. The attitude at the school (or at least in this department) is one of accepting misery. I had no idea that people lived like this. When I noticed that this place was going to be much less enjoyable than I expected, I tried to do everything in my power to make the best of it (you can read my previous posts), but I think that this morning, after working past 3:00am for the 12th night in a row(I checked my time log), I am declaring defeat. </p>
<p>I urge anybody who is considering coming here for undergraduate EECS/CS to strongly reconsider. I wish that I had known, but it is too late for me now. If you do come here, don't take courses with Hilfinger. He alone is making my life a living hell, on top of my two other technicals and one non-technical.</p>
<p>If you are still considering coming here, feel free to PM me, and I will try to make time to discuss it further with you. Also, you probably should get input from others, too. There might be some people whose experiences are drastically different from mine. I just want to help people who are in the same situation which I was in about a year ago by making sure that they see the reality of this place. I want you to know that even if you are expecting it to be extremely difficult, which I was, it is still probably not anything close to what you expect. There are some silver linings, but I wholeheartedly believe that the cons DRASTICALLY outweigh the pros in my case and most others' cases.</p>
<p>I have myriad other reasons why I think that coming to Cal is a bad choice, but I don't have time to keep writing. I have to get back to work until my eyes force themselves closed (I wish I was exaggerating).</p>