<p>There's this one girl I like, and a couple months ago, I tried to hang out with a couple times, to no avail. I'm pretty sure she knew I liked her, but...</p>
<p>A couple weeks ago, out of the blue, she sees me and starts talking to me, and she wants go hang out, and we actually might soon, and I get the feeling she may like me too.</p>
<p>What's up? Why is this happening now? I just don't want to misinterpret anything.</p>
<p>Get some balls and ask.
You don’t want to regret not knowing and having to wonder for the rest of your life. Even if you get rejected, at least you’ll know the truth and you’ll have tried your best. Also, you’ll eventually get it over it so just go for it.
Btw, if it were me, I wouldn’t ask a guy to hang out if I didn’t like him. Since she initiated, she’s obviously interested in some way.</p>
<p>well, obviously she loves you, yeah yeah yeah. with a love like that you know you should be glad…</p>
<p>anyway, try not to overanalyze it and just hang out with her. don’t make things awkward by getting ahead of yourself. become friends first and then see what happens from there.</p>
<p>but don’t get completely stuck in the friend zone. Trust me on this, there’s no escape.</p>
<p>reference ladder theory if necessary.</p>
<p>She may have been stressed. Sometimes I avoid people when I’m busy and have a lot on my mind. I wouldn’t take it personally; she’s probably busy and trying to focus on her life before she can let new people in comfortable.</p>
<p>Another scenario is that she realized that you liked her but she does not share the same feelings. She may have avoided you as a way to clarify this.</p>
<p>The worst possible case, she saw you and she thought that you saw her back and she didn’t want to be rude.</p>
<p>“About a Girl” - The Academy Is…</p>
<p>There’s no reason for her to want to hang out with you unless she likes you. However, you’re gonna have to find out if that means " just friends" or something more.</p>
<p>Simple, her boyfriend dumped her.</p>
<p>^agree…</p>
<p>or she figured that you weren’t a creep and it was ok to hang out. haha. nah. that’s something i do. anyway. man up and ask or just go w/ the flow.</p>
<p>you have to find out if she likes you or not.</p>
<p>even if i get rejected, if i know for sure if the the girl doesn’t like me i feel a sense of accomplishment because i painfully found out myself.</p>
<p>Thanks for ur input guys!</p>