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I was volunteering in my son's classes in public school from K-4. Every teacher made it absolutely clear about this whole issue. We worked with the kids on citing and paraphrasing and the whole deal from kindergarten on--in public school. Who is missing this?
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<p>Well, schools differ in how much they emphasize children doing individual work. My kids went to an alternative (private) school for K-8 where it was common for students to talk to each other about their assignments. There weren't any grades, so that was a non-issue.. In 7th grade, the teacher administered a standardized test just for practice and required the kids to work alone on it. She said she always got a lot of blank stares from the kids when she explained these rules - they didn't get it. Why wouldn't you want to talk with a friend about your misconceptions and obstacles? It is a strange concept, when you think about it - adults don't function like that in the workplace.</p>
<p>It does sound like the kids in this situation probably knew that they were breaking the rules, but I don't think those rules are all that "natural" and obvious.</p>