<p>Look. Here's the deal: Do not snitch. It's not in your best interest. It will get you nowhere seriously. Just let it go. And don't think of it on a karma-wise level because karma's ******** lol.</p>
<p>um i don't see how you could be taken seriously is you complain about it bc first if were you not accepted to the school and she was? that would be a problem bc they could say you are just jealous of her getting in and not you. second its hearsay, u say she was dishonest and she says she wasn't, her arguement would be u don't now her accomplishments and what little u know about her is not all that she is or does. getting yourself invovled would put too much burden on you. really worry about urself, people like her who take short cuts or say they are better than they are wnd up paying for it in the end. My dad told me a story about a guy who cheated al his way through dentistry school and couldn't practice after he graduated bc he knew nothing about dentistryand didn't have the skills to be a dentist in the end.</p>
<p>reminds me of chappelle's show "player haters ball" sketch
-this guy is nominated for turning in to cops his neighbor who was a drugdealer, not because it was the right thing to do, but because he was jealous of all the money he was making.</p>
<p>I agree with the rest - don't say anything. Just dont talk no more to the girl though cause she is not worth you spending time with her</p>
<p>dr bott, you bring up some good questions, but this isn't really a question of academic dishonesty as schools think of it, or as it applies to honor codes, it's really an issue between the girl and the school, since she signed her applications promising that she's being truthful</p>
<p>i think the bible has good things to say about this topic,
"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her"
and
as matthew said, "Judge not lest ye be judged"</p>
<p>this is an issue for the college to deal with, or god, if that's what you believe</p>
<p>w0lf: do you remember 'i am top player haterr... from KOREA!'</p>
<p>I think that pvodenski is mostly right - except that the college can't deal with the issue unless it's notified.</p>
<p>i'd say it's the college's responsibility to find out whether an issue exists on its own by either randomly auditing students or calling references</p>
<p>Is there any downside, though, to reporting an incident that the college missed?</p>
<p>gatorade
"You b*tches better recognize"
that was awesome ))</p>
<p>drbott, i don't think there is
but it just sets up a negative environment</p>
<p>wouldnt u just feel like such a snitch doing that? I would. I'd feel like a sneaky tattletail. Its one of those things that you get annoyed with but move on from. Is it personally affecting you? no.</p>
<p>how come you haven't responded vavavoom? what r u going to do now that u have had the advice from all of us on here?</p>
<p>I'd tell. I don't know about you all but if someone got a place over me in my dream school then I'd be really ****ed off</p>
<p>thats really conniving and spiteful. Life sucks. Deal with it.</p>
<p>the chance that it's just that one person in that kept you from getting in is very slim</p>
<p>there are other things to think about (SATs, activities, etc etc etc)</p>
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<p>So if someone robbed your house of everything you own and you don't have a right to be mad because it's really conniving and spiteful, and you're supposed to just deal with it right?
(yes I know it's not the same this is just an EXAMPLE)</p>
<p>Of course the chance that it's one person keeping you out is very slim, but nothing wrong with trying to make life a little fairer, kick someone undeserving out, and let someone deserving in.</p>
<p>that example wasn't even close to relating to this situation
vicissitudes, you can't blame one person getting in to the school for your not getting in
did you even apply to the hotel school?</p>
<p>an appropriate example along the lines of yours would be 5000 people each taking something from your house and you picking one and finding something about them to get mad at and have arrested</p>
<p>if you're going to go after this girl for her dishonesty, and you want to be fair (like our lord, for example), you'd have to go through each person who was dishonest on his or her application and make sure you bring them to the attention of the office also</p>
<p>now if you don't want to be fair, and just want to get this girl for what she did, you're not going to be doing anything any more honest or respectable than what she did</p>
<p>just drop it, please</p>
<p>No offense, but if you didn't get in it's probably your fault. Look at your stats, look at the stats of people who got in. Are you better than many of them?</p>
<p>Oh well, conniving and spiteful it is. I'm very big on honor and if one is going to cheat to get in then he/she should understand that there is always that chance that someone will tell on him/her. Speaking of which, there was this HUGE thread on a similar topic elsewhere on the board, some interesting views there too.</p>
<p>hey guys, sorry for responding so late. so the deal is that the girl that cheated on her app, cheated off of my application. i got in too, so i'm not jealous but i just feel very tricked because i trusted her to just use my essays as help not to steal them. she took my whole resume of what i did and all that experience for the hotel school, and she also took my idea of restaurants. in the end i've decided not to tell, because i'm already in no biggie. i'll just let it slide and watch out for the future</p>