<p>I agree with mikemac (who always gives good counsel :) ). </p>
<p>Like like anyone working in any other business a guidance counselor works at developing and maintaining good working relationships whether they are with teachers, administrators (both in and out of their schools) colleges, other schools, social workers, referral agencies (both in and outside of the department of education). </p>
<p>Elementary GCs maintain & develop relationships with middle school GCs, middle school GCs maintain and develop relationship with high school GCs, High school GCs maintain and develop relationships with Admissions Directors, financial aid personnel, other high school GCs, etc). This is done to do what is in the best interest of the student and the school.</p>
<p>Guidance counselors and their regional Admission personnel will meet and cross paths on a number of occasions; seminars, the open house/ fair that the college gives, the open house / college fair that the school gives, etc. making it a really small world (who do you think extends the invitations to your school's college fair?). It is not unusual for a school that has a track record of sending students to a particular college for the GC and the regional admissions person not to have a good professional and friendly working relationship How do you think these great track records happen? By building relationships and becoming a school or college of choice. </p>
<p>This is why your GC may get up set with the student who trys to game the ED process, because now they have to go back to their business associate and friend and make amends to keep their integrity and the relationship in tact.</p>
<p>Most Admissions Directors at COFHE schools all know each other. Admissions directors at schools that are part of a consortium all know each other. Many Admission directors travel together to attend the same open house, college fair, seminar).</p>
<p>It is not unusual if a counselor has a relationship with an admissions person to pick up the phone or to shoot an e-mail to ask a quick process question, to inquire about a student who was deferred/waitlisted and put in a good word for them, or ask for a professional favor (they are late sending a recommendation/transcript and giving a heads up)</p>
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D told me that she read in some book that GC or teachers who do not want any negativity going onto the official record sometimes use brightly colored stickies attached to the recommendation letters pointing to the negative stuff, something along the lines "grade-grubber", "biggest whiner", "was caught cheating but parents threatened to sue the school so it never went on record", etc.
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<p>Most teachers write their own recommendations, however some teachers will come to discuss a student with a guidance counselor to get some input on how to best discuss a situation in a recomendation. I have never yet seen a recommendation with a sticky on it.</p>