To be fair, it’s been 5 years since I attended, but I did attend with my son. So, while there is no separate programming on the schedule for admitted students day, I do recall seeing facts and figures about admission, program rankings, unique program details that I wouldn’t have otherwise known. I learned things about the school that impressed me in a big way (even though I am an alum, a lot about the school has def changed since my day).
I came away with information that helped in the school comparison process (as an OOS, the big question is always whether or not “it’s worth OOS tuition”). I scribbled down so many things (terms, program names, etc) that I looked up later online for more details that def gave a better understanding of what Maryland had to offer compared to other schools.
In contrast, my son was looking at things from his perspective as a potential student, and was getting a sense of “fit” - so he was completely oblivious to details I saw and heard. Honestly, that is the way it should be.
Will your son be able to come back and tell you “all about it”…? If he’s like my son, you may be disappointed in what he has to report because my son typically reduces things to a simplistic summary of good or bad, and really doesn’t report the kind of details that I would like. Of course, he’s gotten much better as he’s gotten older, but at that age, well, yeah, I was glad I went.
If you are local and it is not a hardship to attend, I would highly recommend doing so. You don’t need to arrive at 8 am for breakfast - closer to 9 is really fine, especially since your son will already be there for the overnight. Just arrive in time to check in/get schedule packet – the day is done early at 1:00…you can also download an app they now have https://admissions.umd.edu/page_documents/ASOH_March10_Infograpgraphic.png
Depending on where your husband is in recovery stage, maybe you can have a friend or other family member check in on him half way during your absence, and you can set things up for him by putting necessities easily within his reach. Obviously, if your husband needs more extensive care, you shouldn’t feel guilty about not being able to attend with your son. Hope his surgery goes well and he has an easy recovery.