Advice for an incoming freshman? And questions.

Incoming freshman here. I have a few questions that I hope current or past students might help answer…

  1. Even after all the research I've done, NYU's size and NYC's pace still intimidates me. I come from a small, tight-knit high school, and so interaction between peers has been somewhat unavoidable and it was easier to make friends. I hear a lot about how "lonely" it can be at NYU, especially as a freshman (the notorious adjustment period), and I hear a lot about "putting yourself out there." I'm what you might call an introvert by nature, so was wondering how exactly do you go about "putting yourself out there" at such a large and busy place. Would meeting someone random/striking up a conversation/asking for their phone number (might get the wrong idea?) be weird? Any concrete tips or examples?
  2. I'm also somewhat concerned that social life seems to revolve largely around partying and clubbing, which isn't really my scene. I prefer having a small and close group of friends, as well as more cultural events in the city. How big is the clubbing scene, really? Will I be able to find my niche?
  3. In terms of picking classes, I'm open to exploring various subjects and courses. So, are there any courses (of any subject) that you think are Must-take? Are there any life-changing professors that I should definitely sign up for?
  4. And just in general, any advice for freshman year? Things to do, things to avoid doing, safety issues etc...

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Advice for freshman year: DON’T WEAR THE LANYARD. You’ll know what I mean when you get there.