<p>Taking college classes in theatre and musical theatre is completely different than performing in shows in high school. If your child went to a performing arts high school, they have a little understanding of this and some understanding of the culture. If your child went to a regular high school and did not have classes in drama, dance, music, etc, it is a difficult transition. </p>
<p>Yes, the arts can be very fun but it’s also VERY hard and extremely time consuming! If you’re used to being a star in high school, you will find that stars from all over the country are now your classmates. There will be someone in your class that will point out that they work harder than anyone else and therefore, they deserve the highest grade or the biggest part. There will be the girl in your class who knows the words to every Broadway musical and will take every opportunity to sing them- EVERY opportunity! There will be the theatre director who will spend the whole time in rehearsal talking because he loves the sound of his voice- meanwhile- there is a lot of time wasting. There will be the director who will call rehearsal at the last minute- after you have already made plans. </p>
<p>All I’m saying is that some kids really loves this and some kids do not. That’s why I can understand kids leaving their BFA programs after one semester. I think it’s especially hard for kids who go to colleges with sports and Greek life because you see all your dorm friends hanging out and having fun while you have to go to rehearsal and won’t get back until midnight. It’s hard to know all of this when you’re 17 or 18. A lot of kids will not realize this until they are in college. I don’t believe staying in a BFA program will make you successful or leaving a BFA program will ruin you for life. In this business, no one knows. That’s why I believe it’s your child’s life and they will know what’s best. As hard as it is- especially for parents who spent money on lessons throughout the years, we have to trust what our child decides to pursue. </p>
<p>One of my kids is a junior in a BFA Acting program and the other one decided to minor in theatre after one semester in her BFA Acting program. I believe both of them will be successful in whatever they do. Okay- stepping off my soap box as I feel like I’m going in circles! p.s. I didn’t think lucysmom was offensive in any way at all! I think she was very realistic.</p>