<p>I am in one of the most competitive high schools in my state. I am a 3.9/2300 student. I am president of several clubs. I have over a thousand community service hours. I have won national awards. I have won state awards. I have won local awards. I have published a book. I have long-term commitments in everything I do. I am passionate and wrote essays that I spent time on. I have good relationships with my teachers. I didn't fail my interview. I applied ED to my ultimate top-choice school.</p>
<p>I was rejected on December 10th.</p>
<p>On February 27th, it's only finally settled in. I never cried over the rejection, but I'm sitting here now, devastated. After having my heart set on a school for over three years and fooled into believing that I had a decent shot of being accepted, it's taken me three months to realize that I'm not going there. </p>
<p>College admissions is no longer exciting. The prospect of other schools doesn't thrill me. After getting two more acceptances to other schools, I still haven't felt the excitement I expected to feel because nothing will compare to the happiness I could have felt. </p>
<p>And yes, I know I will settle somewhere and it will be the best four years of my life. I will go somewhere I was "meant to go". But my mind will never stop wondering about the what ifs. What if I studied harder for another two final exams? What if my GPA was 0.05 higher? What if I could've done something else, written about another essay topic?</p>
<p>I like to believe that I'm not a regretful person, but really...I am. I have made mistakes, I have lost focus, and I have wasted time. But as of now, I am terrified that I won't regain the euphoria of being in love with a college. Maybe things will change when April 1st and September 1st comes. Perchance they won't.</p>
<p>To the younger students, the juniors, the sophomores, the freshmen, I say:</p>
<p>Always argue for that borderline grade. Don't lose your focus. Study for that final as hard as you can if you need the grade. Don't get distracted. The disappointment of rejection for the next four years of your life isn't worth that extra night of fun. </p>
<p>Or perhaps I should contend: Don't fall too far in love with a school that you have no complete grasp that you can attend. College admissions will never be what you think they are.</p>
<p>To those accepted to their first choice, I say:</p>
<p>Congratulations. I hope you will never have to feel the drag of four month, 24/7 disappointment.</p>