Advice From a Former Applicant

<p>Hey guys! As I haven't posted in months, I doubt anyone remembers me; I applied to six schools last year. I was accepted to five, but wasn't able to attend due to money issues. I considered applying this year, but ultimately decided against it.</p>

<p>I was watching Dead Poets Society the other day and it reminded me of CC, so I decided to come on here and see how everyone was doing. I'm not surprised to see people freaking out about March 10th. I can completely identify with how you're applicants are feeling- I was a nervous wreck last year! It's hard to know that something so important to you is in someone else's hands.</p>

<p>I was crushed when I learned I couldn't attend boarding school last year. After a couple weeks, though, I recovered and began to realize how many opportunities I had at home. I entered an early graduation program and will most likely graduate next spring (a year early). I love my friends and family and I'm happy with my life here. Am I glad I didn't attend prep school? I honestly don't know, but I do know that I have no regrets.</p>

<p>Anywho, the purpose of this post is let everyone know that there IS life beyond prep school. If you aren't accepted or you're unable to go, life does go on! There are other things out there, and YOU are the one to determine your happiness and success- not what school you go to.</p>

<p>I really hope everyone is accepted to their top choice- but if you don't, it's not the end of the world. Best of luck to everyone!</p>

<p>I didn’t forget you Bama! It’s nice to hear that everything worked out after your experience last year. I’m glad that the whole boarding school application craziness didn’t make you lose focus. </p>

<p>I really love this thread’s message. Being on CC can really make it seems as if boarding schools are the only options in life and if you don’t make it in, you’re doomed. Thanks for posting this!</p>

<p>Hi bamagirl95, welcome back to CC. Good to hear that you are doing great. I always knew there is life out side of BS. Have you been into any new ECs? Tell us what is new in the last several months.</p>

<p>Bama, a heartening message. Thank you for posting. And yes, I remember you.</p>

<p>Cheers!</p>

<p>We remember you! How could anyone forget the hysterical “recommendation” that Winterset wrote for you? LOL. I am So Very Glad to hear that you are doing well. I wish you and your family the best.</p>

<p>bamagirl95 Thank you for posting. For every door that closes, another opens. For the school I know best my dream is that every Bamagirl out there should be admitted. Do well. Keep in touch!</p>

<p>Bamagirl–yes you are fondly remembered. I am happy to hear you report that there is life outside of attending bs.</p>

<p>I wish you well :-).</p>

<p>Bamagirl, of course we remember you! Good luck with your future plans.</p>

<p>Someone should bump your post to the top of the list on March 9th. Well phrased.</p>

<p>It’s great to see so many familiar names! Ahh the recommendation letter… I firmly believe that letter alone would have gotten me in. ;)</p>

<p>I’ve been pretty busy lately! Both track season and dance competitions are starting up right now, so I’ve got lots to look forward to. I took the ACT last week, and my dad said he’ll buy me a car if I beat my brother’s score hahaha. His college application process was drama free- he applied to one school and got accepted. Hopefully my college app experience will be similar! </p>

<p>So where are y’all applying to?</p>

<p>It’s pretty hard to believe that if you’re not admitted into prep school life goes on… well at least in my area of the Bronx. I’m really excited about applying to prep school though, and am almost certain I will at least get into ONE school out of eight with a stellar FA package. anyways, I’m applying to:</p>

<p>Choate*
Taft*
Peddie
Concord
St. Georges*
St. Andrews
Cate*
Episcopal*</p>

<p>*Top choices</p>

<p>I wish I had that option :frowning: </p>

<p>If I don’t get accepted, my education opportunities are less than minimal. At least I don’t have to say goodbye to my friends and family I guess.</p>

<p>Great words, bamagirl! I don’t really know you, but you seem like a very nice person, and I wish you the best.</p>

<p>bamagirl, I remember you, though I don’t think you know me. Your previous posts showed you the girl full of heart & life that you are. No one turn in life changes that. I am glad you are thriving. I have no doubt that you will be successful in whatever life holds for you.</p>

<p>Ditto! I’m glad to see you here on the boards. Your words of wisdom will help students have perspective when the March 10 decisions come around.</p>

<p>Happiness is a frame of mind and you’ve got a fabulous attitude!</p>

<p>Hey everyone! I’m bumping this for M10. I know it’s really hard to keep perspective right now, but remember- high school is only four years. Compared to say, seventy-two years of life, it really is insignificant. Acceptances are certainly great accomplishments, but the decisions tomorrow don’t define your worth or potential!</p>

<p>RELAX tonight! Eat some chocolate, take a bubble bath, or watch your favorite movie. Reward yourself for a job well done. No matter what the letters say tomorrow, you have something to be proud of. :)</p>

<p>It’s up to 79 years in the U.S., so all things in perspective. Godspeed everyone!</p>

<p>I wasn’t a member at the time, but I did scope the boards for a year or so (not in a stalker kind of way though). I can think of a bunch of posts by you from last year. It’s kind of cool to see how the “set” of applicants totally changes, but one thing always stays the same… MARCH 10TH! I was honestly disappointed for you when I found out you wouldn’t be going (it was like watching a good TV show). The best part is that you’ll save your parents tons, you’ll get to stay with your friends, and might have more money for college saved up. Good luck to everyone, including bamagirl95 (when I first read your username a long time ago, I thought you were from the bahamas).</p>

<p>M10 is just another day, relax and try not to stay up too late.</p>