<p>I would be very grateful for any suggestions about how to proceed in this situation. </p>
<p>I am appalled at what is going on in my child's AP class, but my child does not want me to complain. This child loves the relaxed atmosphere and feels it is a sign of how highly the class is regarded by other teachers--the vice principal pops in regularly to discuss the latest episode of Jersey Shore, for example!</p>
<p>Since September, not one single graded writing assignment has been returned to these students! A grade, always 100 in my child's case, appears on the computer, but they never see the paper again and never receive any feedback from the teacher.</p>
<p>I asked my child to persist in asking for the work but we gave up after a while. Child said it was embarrassing and, after all, EVERYONE KNOWS that he NEVER gives back ANY work! Since then, I have talked to kids who graduated in 2009, 2010, and current seniors--all agree, he never gave back anything!</p>
<p>Tests, which have been returned eventually after my repeated requests, consist of a large section of objective questions. There is one essay question, for which my child writes two full pages and always receives full credit, but there has never been one single mark anywhere on the essays that would indicate they've been read.</p>
<p>So, I spoke to some parents of my child's classmates. They were all happy to see the As and pretty much left their top-notch students to take care of things on their own. I felt a bit odd for being aware of various writing assignments (which my child had spent many hours working on). These parents seemed to think it was none of their business.</p>
<p>One other parent is concerned about complaining because she has another child yet to come through the high school. Someone even commented to me that I should be careful, lest this teacher retaliate on my child's younger cousins!</p>
<p>After several emails and conversations with the teacher, where he gave various reasons for not returning the work and promised to do better in the future, I have emailed his supervisor and cc'd him. The supervisor is on leave for a week. The principal commented that if I still want a meeting, one can be arranged then.</p>
<p>IF I STILL WANT A MEETING?? Why would I not?? Meanwhile, the teacher called my child into the hall and quietly said, "Your mother is really mad at me," and gave back ONE of the 10 missing assignments. My child wants no parts of this, and told him so. My child is so pleased to be included in all the fun discussions with all the other teachers who pop in to visit their class.</p>
<p>So, how do I proceed? Other parents do not want to complain for fear of it affecting their children's grades. My child is happy to be one of the cool kids. Only I seem to care that they are not doing anything to prepare for the AP test and it is clear that the teacher is not grading any of their written work.</p>
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