advice needed

<p>alright so my parents are ****ing me off beyond belief right now
They are soo strict and im getting so strict of it</p>

<p>A couple of days ago i called up my mom saying i want to go golfing w/ my friends and she says it's ok. I'm almost there and my friends who were golfing me before calling me say that they don't feel like golfing and to meet me and follow them back to his house. My mom was in a meeting so I call my dad and tell him that I was going to be at my friend's house. So we chill there and go out to get ice cream and pizza. And we chilled in his basement for a while...just listening to music and hanging out. Apparently my parents were trying to call me and couldn't get through-no service in my friend's basement. Now I did forget to pick up my brother from work, but he could walk 10 minutes to get home. So my parents were all *<strong><em>ed at me because I made a change of plans at the last minute and didn't tell them. Well...i told my dad and the reason I didn't call my mom was because she said she was in a meetting and i didnt want to distract her. She said well you should have told me you were changing you're plans even if i was in a meeting. I have no idea ytf they're *</em></strong>ed...the only thing they could/should be mad about is me forgetting to pick up my brother
And last night,...
I asked if I could have one of my friends over to watch a movie and my dad said ask my mom because he knew she was tired. I ask her and she says it's OK. So we're walking up to the movie store and one of my friends calls my friend whom I'm walking with and wants to do something with us so he meets us at the movie store. And another friend who lives in a different town happened to be in my town so he called asking if we could do something. So we all end up going back to my house at 9:15 pm and I tell them to wait outside because I need to make sure it's OK I can have two extra guys over. I ask my dad and he says ask your mom which I do and I ask my mom and she says it's ok. They then go downstairs and my parents yell at me and were *<strong><em>ed at me because I didn't plan ahead. They also said I'm selfish...because I had friends over when my mom was tired...ok then why did my mom say yes.
They just *</em></strong> me off because they're so overprotective. Like normal teenagers go out on fridays nights/weekends and do whatever...you know drive around have a good time, going to different peoples houses. And my parents NEED to know what i'm doing, where i'm doing it, and who i'm doing it with. I know they're jsut trying to be good, protective parents but they're KILLING me!! I'm 17 years old and they cut me no slack what so ever. Even when I want to chill with people they don't know they say no because I don't know them. I had a similar convo w/ this about them and i said well what about when im in college and doing whatever and going out...their response...well thats college and you will be more older and more mature and in college
sorry for my rant
any opinions/advice</p>

<p>Sorry dude but you're not the only one out there with overprotective/strict parents. Fact is, there's probably nothing you can do about it until you're eighteen and somewhat of an adult. Then, you go to an out of state college and be "free." If you're still at home with your parents at eighteen, then there's nothng you can do about it cause they'll be providing for you. Best thing is just to keep quiet and tough it out until you can move far far away.</p>