@WalknOnEggShells Let us assume that he is serious.
I provided proof for the falsity of his thought process. In egalitarian societies, good looks have a very high value for men. Therefore, some males might assume that the same is true for females. According to the article I cited (Which may or may not be 100% accurate), this is not the case.
In other words, it does not seem like he needs to reshape himself to increase his attractiveness. If the main reason somebody is attracted to another is looks, that person’s attraction might waver when he meets a better looking candidate.
But if he thinks that the way he looks is something that hinders him in many ways, a surgery is understandable, but since his family are unwilling to help him pay, I doubt that this a very necessary cosmetic surgery.
Also, This comment of the OP contradicts what he said here, unless he is pursuing “a very special kind of surgery”: