<p>Whether or not it was the top school he applied to, how are we to determine if that did or did not hurt his feelings? It was completely out of line, regardless of his response to it.</p>
<p>BruinMichelle, I don't know you. I can tell by your posts that you are intelligent and that you've worked hard to be admitted to the schools you applied to. I can't judge you as a person -- you may be a very nice, considerate girl in real life. I know it is in you; I've seen you display some of that on these boards.</p>
<p>But I think this is about the 3rd or 4th time that I've witnessed you make some catty or insensitive remark to someone which is obviously intended as a put-down. </p>
<p>You attacked all of the people in the "Rejected from UCLA" thread. Just the other day I found myself responding to post of yours on the "May 1st is here and still no answer from the UC" thread that was not only rude but completely unwarranted. You told us that you thought it all "ludicrous and a little demented" that we felt the UCs were "conspiring against" us -- which was a total mispresentation of what anyone on that thread had said. You couched it then, as now, with LOLs and smiley faces, which actually made it more insulting. Immediately following this, you lectured another poster about karma. </p>
<p>I just read a post of yours in the "UC Applicants - Come Join" thread: "Lately, when I state the obvious, I've been typecast a jerk."</p>
<p>Being nasty to a bunch of people who have just been rejected from a school you got into and taking their frustration at that school personally so you can attack them and escalate the situation, insinuating that people who are frustrated at not hearing from schools (which you had already heard back from) are paranoid and that you find it demented, and lecturing a student who clearly stated in his post that he came to the US a year ago on grammar -- telling him "no wonder you were rejected." ;-) IS NOT stating the obvious. </p>
<p>It's being argumentative, insensitive and flat-out rude.</p>
<p>That whole paragraph was a gigantic run-on sentence, and I don't care.</p>
<p>It is just unnecessary to be that way on these boards. We are supposed to be here as a support to one another and to be positive -- not to tear each other down with subversive remarks at every turn.</p>