<p>Do you/ did you ever want them back? If yes, after how long?
Also, do you often check their facebook? What do you think if they defriend you? Then add you back? Do you still check them/ their pictures?
Also, how intense was/ is your relationship?</p>
<p>Lol prob bout 96% of these people on here have NEVER had a girlfriend in their entire life.</p>
<p>I’ve only had 3 girlfriends and I’m not fiends with any of them anymore. I’m just not good with dong that. I used to try, but I just end up being an a-hole to them</p>
<p>And for the record, I broke up with all of them, and for the same reason (not being a serious person). I have a weakness for flirty girls who dont take relationships seriously lol</p>
<p>@ FutureVpFinance lol “fiends.” I hope you meant friends.</p>
<p>I realized I wanted him back three days after, when he started talking to me again.</p>
<p>But then again, with my other one, after three days, I realized I never wanted him back.</p>
<p>I broke up with both, and I stalked both. lol. </p>
<p>Sorry to tell you but you’ll never know which case you might be. I acted enamored with the second one, but out of… not good reasons.</p>
<p>I think being readded on facebook is a good sign though… but being “good friends” with your exes are hard (for me) even if you don’t like them anymore. I don’t know how people do it. Or maybe they don’t.</p>
<p>Oh but if you want her back (I’m assuming you are a he and that you do want her back) just casually continue to talk to her. Then try flirting a bit and see how she responds. If she’s still interested she’ll continue to talk to you. Continue trying unless she responds very obviously that she’s done. But then again you’ll never really know… I acted really ambiguously and I sometimes wish he’d (both of them) tried longer and I might’ve started responding. Every relationship’s different and this is just my stance. Yeah I’m flaky/passive lol</p>
<p>Really there’s no way to find out for sure unless you man up and try again… GooodLuckk</p>
<p>lol yes “friends” lmao</p>
<p>my ex and i broke up after 9 1/2 months of a pretty serious relationship
i never really wanted her back, i missed the memories though (making out and such ahha)
stalked her fb a little, but not much hahah
and now i hate her…and kinda miss her …
im really good friends with one of my exes, it’s not that hard or awkward, it only is if you make it.</p>
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<p>It’s funny that you mention that because from another thread one can see that about 1 in 15 have.</p>
<p>lol this site makes me look like a player cuz ive had 7 gf’s, dated two of them 3 times and one twice</p>
<p>I have 2 ex’s and I’m still on decently good terms with both.</p>
<p>I wanted my ex back the day after she broke up with me and for about 2 weeks after. Our relationship was very…intense (and physical) to say the least haha. After a couple weeks i got over it. Then after 3 months she told me she still loved me and I’m proud to say i have NOT taken her back.</p>
<p>Yes, I’ve always wanted them back for a little bit, but not enough to make me actually pursue the relationship again.
Yes, to be honest, after I break up with someone, I will stalk their Facebook until I get over them (usually when I meet a new guy).
I’ve never been defriended on Facebook by an ex.
Hmm, it doesn’t really matter how intense the relationship was. I went out with two guys for about 3 months each, and though it’s nothing like the relationship now, I probably still thought about them a lot for maybe 6 months after. Haha sounds like a long time, but relationships have always had a lasting effect on me, even though I broke up with them each time.</p>
<p>Out of all the people I’ve ever dated, there’s only one guy I’ve really wanted back. Its been about 7 or 8 weeks and I still think about him a lot. I’ve at least realized how much of a jerk he is. I don’t miss him. I miss the idea of what we had.
I look at his page maybe once a week. There’s nothing I need to see.</p>
<p>Now it’s time to go meet new people. Whoop!(;</p>
<p>I dated a guy from May 2008 (the end of eighth grade) to July 2009 (after ninth grade). We broke up and things were so awkward. Sometimes, I wanted him back, and sometimes, I couldn’t stand him.</p>
<p>After we got over that toward the end of sophomore year, we became inseparable friends. I supported him through his various attempts at relationships, and he did the same for me.</p>
<p>We got back together at the start of September, and I couldn’t be happier.</p>
<p>There was only one person who I couldn’t get out my head for months. I spent my summer partying, and I still couldn’t get over him. I came back for school, and I was still into him. Unfortunately, he moved to another continent AND promptly stopped talking to me despite his assurances that we’ll always be friends no matter what. Though we never dated, we did hook up a couple of times and talk a lot. But, I guess it wasn’t enough to stay friends and talk on MSN every now and then. I see it as his loss, now. But, I did feel awfully bad before, when he wouldn’t ever talk to me. I don’t go on his facebook page at all anymore, though that too took a while. Time DOES heal all wounds, don’t worry.</p>
<p>Dang… it sounds really bad… I don’t think Time heals anything… You have to work toward that goal</p>
<p>Do you/ did you ever want them back? If yes, after how long?
- There’s only ONE ex that I’ve ever gotten back together with, and it was a week after our break up. He messed up and apologized; it had something to do with his ex girlfriend. I forgave him, but relunctantly said yes to going back out with him.
Other than that, no.</p>
<p>Also, do you often check their facebook? What do you think if they defriend you? Then add you back? Do you still check them/ their pictures?
Well referring to one of my recent ex, he had gotten a virus on his fb page about 4 days after we broke up >:] lol, so he had deleted his facebook. But then about 3 weeks later, after adding ALL of my friends back, he finally added me.
Sometimes I check my ex’s facebook page, but I’ve calmed down with that. I guess the more you seperate, the less you care.</p>
<p>Also, how intense was/ is your relationship?
Out of the five, three of them were intense, one was okay-ish, and the other was eh (it only lasted 5 days, LOADS of drama).</p>
<p>I’m friends with all of my ex boyfriends, except the one with the fb virus.</p>