Aggravating Professor - Withdraw or stay?

<p>I've got a major problem with my professor for English Literature.</p>

<p>I thought I'd really like the course when I signed up for it. The material looked interesting enough and the professor struck me as really nice, if not a little too personal and sweet.</p>

<p>However my illusion of the ideal English Literature course has gone up in smoke. I was unaware of the major problems in the course until someone else in my class spoke to me before class. She said that she noticed the professor didn't like me very much. I was slightly surprised but I had had that nagging feeling for a couple days, and I replied so. What she said next was a bit surprising: Apparently, she noticed the professor's dislike of the both of us, and we agreed that we didn't like the professor that much. It's not a case of a professor feeling generally superior to her students, though. I observed her a little more closely, and noticed that there's someone else that she seems particularly fond of.</p>

<p>The first assignment, which was a short paper on our opinions on a short story, which I handed in received a mediocre grade. According to her comment, she merely disagreed with my opinion that "I found the selection to abuse a highly cliche story plot."</p>

<p>Her behavior also irks me to no end. One of the first things she said in class worried me a bit: She basically said that she expected us to meet her expectations in this singsong voice that set warning lights screaming through my head. I thought she was like my Intermediate Algebra professor (tough and strict but a very fair and effective professor) and glossed over it, but I realized that I should have listened to the warnings.</p>

<p>Someone in the class dropped out after the first or second class, and the professor made a comment like, "Oh, _____ isn't here. What's wrong, he couldn't take it?"</p>

<p>There was a group of four people who seemed to be close friends, and the professor split them up because "it wasn't fair for the people who weren't their friends."</p>

<p>She gave me a bad grade on an assignment because (please do not think about this too hard because I don't want anyone's head exploding from confusion) of how I handed in one of my papers: I finished just by the end of class and asked for a place to print it, she said with her usual sarcasm, "Well you know you could always go across the street to the library, if you're quick you just might be able to make it..." I remembered the tutoring center upstairs and went there to print out my paper. As to why exactly I got a bad grade, she didn't say. Maybe it was because I didn't cross the street with Macbot and print it in the library?</p>

<p>There were 16 people in our class the last time I checked, and she liked to split the class into groups of 4. However last class she split them into groups of 3 - guess who she left out? Me. And she said "Oh look, <my name="" here=""> doesn't have a group. Does anyone want to help her out?" (I was literally burning with embarrassment but I don't cry or anything, I become homicidal.)</my></p>

<p>It's not just a problem of conflicting personalities too. She has a really awful habit of going off on tangents, we can be talking about the author one minute and the next she'll say something like "Oh, and speaking of this, it just reminded me of this one time..." She can spend about 15-25 minutes giving us a short lecture about some vague assignment, our next short story to read, and the weather, then she'll spend the rest of class talking about her favorite magazines and that one time something happened a few years ago. Her beliefs bleed into how she teaches. We don't learn how to write, we don't learn how to analyze literature, all we learn are her (irrational and illogical) beliefs. There are no open class discussions where we talk about our questions and opinions about what we've just read - we're supposed to simply sit and listen to the professor's opinions, and agree with them.</p>

<p>For all you tl;dr people: My professor is rude, condescending, pulls far-fetched assignments out of thin air, shows blatant favoritism towards some and outright snobbishness towards others, and grades people on how much she likes them and whether or not she agrees with your beliefs.</p>

<p>I really want to withdraw from the course, because I've got a nagging little premonition that's telling me "She's going to drag you through hell and back if you stay in this course! She hates your guts and isn't afraid to show it because she's got control over you!" I think I'm doing fairly well in this course, but I don't know how long it's going to last. I saw her give some other guy a bad grade with the comment "I don't agree with you" and sadly with these courses where everything that is the professor's word reigns supreme, that is a perfectly good reason.</p>

<p>Why are you posting? It seems like you already know you should drop out. Is there another section you could switch into?</p>

<p>I am a bit of an indecisive person by nature when it comes to decisions that are non-life threatening.</p>

<p>It's kind of late for me to switch into another section, and it seems that the other English Lit. courses conflict with my schedule.</p>

<p>At least your english professor didn't draw a huge "X" over every page of your 10 page papers accompanied with a nice big "STOP IT" in red ink (apparently thats what he does to B- papers). My english professor last semester assigned us two economics books and cancelled class 10 times half due to "family emergency" and the other half due to migrane headaches. He gave us group work and then just sat there and watched us for the whole class. My advice would just to stick it out and get it over with, unless its absolutely useless in which case I would drop the course.</p>

<p>Does "I do not learn anything in these 90-odd minutes other than my professor's favorite hobbies and personal life" equate to "absolutely useless" ?</p>

<p>... I mean, I'm all for meeting new people and getting to know them, but I like to be able to reply... without being punished, you know.</p>

<p>Drop it .</p>

<p>I had a problem with a teacher like this once. Just approach her and say you got off on the wrong foot and you'd like to know how you can make it work. You might have suck up- but it goes a long way.</p>

<p>If you cant do that, just drop it.</p>

<p>Thanks for the replies/suggestions everyone... but the problem is, I tried to analyze her on the first couple classes and I was completely unable to. I can't even get an idea of her personality.</p>

<p>I could <em>try</em> sucking up to her and being a goody-goody, but I don't know how far that will get me.</p>

<p>Will other colleges ask me why I withdrew from the course if/when I transfer?</p>

<p>Maybe one of the reasons you received a low grade is your misuse of words such as "aggravate" in the title.
I had a prof like that, I sucked it up and am glad I did, because she kept saying I should drop the course (for upperclassman) because I was a freshman, and I would have felt like I slighted myself had I dropped it.
Based on my classes so far, it seems like most students make reasons up as to why they are doing poorly in a class- the prof, the assignments etc;. You think the prof doesn't like you because of what a classmate said (who was probably looking for someone to complain with), not based on anything else, or your own opinion.
Did you try going to office hours, ask her to further explain assignments, ask for help on a paper? What about taking the course Pass/Fail? If you know another English Prof, maybe you can ask them for help, or an upperclassman. What level is the class?Perhaps your writing skills are not college level. I know the writing level varies substantially among students at my school. College Profs grade harder than hs teachers, and As and Bs are earned much more so then in HS...It seems like the only reason you think you've received low grades is because she doesn't like you, Profs have egos, which explains why some are total a holes.</p>

<p>Well, at the start of the class, there were 23 people. Four/five weeks later there are 16. </p>

<p>I received an A (104%, but the system doesn't seem to register A+) in English Comp 1... I've seen her give perfectly good grades to people with subpar grammar spelling.</p>

<p>Hm... It's not just the fact that she doesn't like me, it's because we don't see eye to eye. The problem is, the assignment (write any responses and/or questions you might have towards the reading selection) is completely open to interpretation. The views and opinions of students and teacher differ greatly, but I don't see why she feels that it is justified to give people bad grades for differing opinions.</p>

<p>Some professors like when you disagree or challenge them as long as you can back up your argument. Other professors feel that their opinions are the only correct opinions on the subject. In this case, you need to bite your lip and give them what they want even if it goes against your own opinion on the matter. Just spit back what they want you to say and what they want to hear. Laugh about it outside of class. If anything, this experience has taught you to never take another class with this particular professor.</p>

<p>Thing is.. I don't even know what she wants me to say.</p>

<p>Sometimes I can "read" people, what they like, what they don't like... not this person. It's impossible for me to figure out whether she just hates me, or if she hates my opinions, or if she's just grouchy, or any combination of them... I don't want to make myself seem like a shallow suck-up for nothing.</p>

<p>Developing the radar that alert one to bozo instructor is critical to college success. Trust you instincts; don't stick around thinking that you can tough it out. There are usually too many other options to waste your time on poor professors in college.</p>

<p>Thanks for the advice and opinions, everyone.</p>

<p>I withdrew from the course this morning, confirmed it about an hour ago.</p>

<p>(Not sure if it's customary on this forum for threads to be locked once the issue has been solved, so I think I'll just fade into the background and let this thread run its course ...)</p>