OP- getting a college degree isn’t like putting together an outfit where you can buy a top from Target to match a pair of pants from J Crew. Every university has its own rules about which credits can be applied to your program and which can’t. If you’ve been grinding along retaking classes over the summer at a different institution, you likely haven’t been communicating very well with your “home” university about how to graduate.
You are being handed a gift- two years off. But before you take the gift, sit down with someone (likely not your current advisor- you need the Dean of Students or someone who understands the big picture academically) and review your transcript, your financial aid status (how much you’ve borrowed, how much aid you’ve taken, what you owe-- from every single college you’ve been enrolled in since the day you finished HS). Then get IN WRITING the plan for finishing your degree-- not just how many courses or credits, but which ones you need to take. You could end up with too many credits (i.e. lots of Gen Ed courses but no completed major) or credits from another college which won’t count, etc. So get it in writing which exact classes at this college you need to pass in order to get a Bachelor’s degree.
Then go find a job which allows you to support yourself, move along in your grieving process (condolences to you- what a rough patch you’ve had) and come up with a plan which is not medical school. There are many ways to work in the health care field which do not involve the massive debt and time required to become a doctor and you need to learn what those are.
Hugs- you can do this.