<p>A firm “it depends” from me. It depends on the school, the school’s culture, what your child will be doing next year, how easy it is to get off campus, whether your child is likely to want to go out with friends to a pizza place or to buy coffee…</p>
<p>If I were you, I’d set her up with the on-campus spending account, with an “as needed” draw, and then see how it goes. The quality of food, and its availability, vary widely by school, or even by dorm. Some schools allow students to order take out, and some don’t. If your child returns to campus after an away game, can she get dinner? Or will the kichen be closed, and she’ll have to eat dodgy snack food or go hungry if she can’t order out? </p>
<p>Your child needs some pocket money. You want your kid to be able to participate in an activity such as walking to a nearby ice cream shop with dorm mates (with permission, of course.) Some dorms take turns ordering pizza for the whole bunch, for example, Jane buys the first week, Dara buys the second week, and the third week, it’s your kid’s turn. It’s sensible to not have money lying around the dorm room, although the schools do expel students for theft. </p>
<p>High school freshmen have not stopped growing. Some students, especially boys, will need new shoes or new pants Right Now. It’s easier for them to be able to purchase such items on a school-sponsored trip to the mall than to ship your best guess at sizing across the country at short notice.</p>
<p>Some banks offer teen debit cards. The parent can add money from home, and monitor teen spending. It’s a great way to give your child the ability to buy a plane ticket home at short notice, rather than sending her off to school with lots of money. You can also cut off the card if it goes missing, and have serious conversations about not buying junk food. (Because you can access the report on where the card was used, and for what.)</p>
<p>The school store will have necessities, such as notebooks and pens. We used Amazon Prime–if a child needs anything, I can have it shipped free to the kid in two days, which is useful if it’s something the school or local stores don’t stock, or if the kid has particular tastes (due to allergies or homesickness.)</p>
<p>If your child is doing her own laundry, she will need to access money to use the machines. Some schools use charge cards, some require quarters. </p>
<p>It depends on the child, as well. An outgoing child who goes to the movies and pizza places with friends, who needs to buy clothes to participate in an optional activity (such as sledding, skiing, or a performance), and who takes advantage of optional cultural events, might run up a larger tab than a child who is happy in the dining hall, doesn’t go out for optional events, and doesn’t share with friends. Both children will profit from the boarding experience, one will spend more money, but there isn’t really a standard answer to your question. (Does this help?)</p>