<p>Well, this is my 4th week in college & I haven't made "actual" friends yet. I text this girl in my english cls, but we dont talk in cls cuz she sits in the back, I sit in the front. Hmm, well im kinda worried that I wont make any friends anytime soon. I'm a person that make friends slowly, like in high school..I didn't have close friends til junior year & senior year,freshmen year & sophomore year, I rarely made friends. Am I completely doomed to make friends in college??? I dont know why its so hard for me...I'm in this fashion club, but I havent went to the meetings cuz of my class schedule. I will go next week. ANY ADVICE FOR ME?? =/</p>
<p>Ask the girl you text outside of class to HANG OUT outside of class. If you’re already talking, why not do something together? Find more clubs to join…ones that fit both your interests and class schedules. If you recognize someone in one of your classes in your dorm, ask if they want to study together…there is hope.</p>
<p>the thing is I dont live in dorms, I live in a house 10 mins away from campus. That’s why its hard to make friends! I want to live in a dorm so bad, but I was waitlisted #100 something so there was no chance of me getting a spot. =/</p>
<p>I would definitely try to join clubs or sport teams, they will probably be your quickest ways to get to know more people</p>
<p>hmm, but i dont know how to join a club now. They only had the club fair during freshmen orientation.</p>
<p>Email your adviser and ask, or surf the colleges website and see if you can find anything. Ten minutes away keeps you from grabbing lunch with the person from class?</p>
<p>AsianGirl what school are you at?</p>
<p>because depending on the school, you are probably destined to fall into a fiery pit full of hungry Brazilian alligators waiting to devour you alive.
<em>sarcasm</em> < yea, some people actually need that.</p>
<p>You don’t have to make friends just because that’s what everyone else does. If it’s hard for you to get close to people immediately, then just accept it and move on.</p>
<p>There are probably fliers around for clubs…I know they’re all over my school!</p>
<p>Join Habitat for Humanity club. They’ll be happy to have your help and they’ll have meetings and social activities as well as work on building houses.</p>
<p>Or join a club similar to one you liked in high school.</p>
<p>Or join a club relevant to your major or a hobby.</p>
<p>Living off campus, you are going to have to make a little extra effort to get to know people.</p>
<p>Does anyone else think it’s funny that she lives TEN minutes away from campus.</p>
<p>Her college has a web page for all of the clubs and activities that lets you send an email to the club to find out when they meet, so I hope she tries it. It is a little bit harder to meet people when you don’t live on campus.</p>
<p>comiclover-how is that funny?? I really do!!</p>
<p>BMWdude335- I go to CSU Northridge…</p>
<p>U go to CSUN man I know like 20% of the freshman class there and like 10 of the sophmores</p>
<p>Comic lover I think it is funny as well, 10 minutes is like pretty much living at school!</p>
<p>Oh and if you want to make friends, walk around with a cool shiirt and everyone that asks you what your shirt says, ask them if they want to be your friend</p>
<p>that may not help… </p>
<p>… :/</p>
<p>Relax, it will take some time. If this was second semester, then yes I would be concerned, but its only been a few weeks.</p>
<p>don’t worry, asian chicks always make lots of friends sooner or later</p>
<p>^lol That’s true.</p>
<p>lol okay but its been like almost a month. I will just go with the flow I guess ;/</p>
<p>hmmm i say u just join more clubs,
or a sorority??
u good at sports??</p>