A lot to absorb about getting a new college list, but need to get busy if HS senior. As another said, please show parents this thread. There is a list of schools where you would get tuition merit based on your stats, but that still will leave expenses as @mom2collegekids has said. And going to CC route in CA still means major $$ to complete UG degree. If parents will help maybe $5K, then many schools could be do-able with the student loans/working that a student can do. Perhaps your parents are scared of what they are hearing college will cost.
If scored for National Merit, a few more schools and $$ will open up.
There is a healthy list of OOS scholarship opportunities. For example I know you would qualify for full tuition scholarship at Univ of Alabama where my daughter attends. They have some great honors programs, and you could definitely shine as a student if you apply yourself and get into every opportunity that will help your academic and career path. National Merit awards more. And they do have a monthly payment plan which is helpful to families (as most schools have set up). However you would have to make the rest of the costs work out. They do have a range of student housing, so going in the dorm where it is the traditional (versus the suite style) will save about $2K a year.
Check out the automatic merit situation from the lists available on CC, or maybe someone will post the link. Your GPA (weighted or unweighted) and ACT/SAT score are the two key things schools look at quickly (plus those that are National Merit).
My two nephews went to Drake - but they lived in Iowa. They did the FAFSA every year. Parents had to pay about half of costs (which took about all of my sister’s take home pay, but education was extremely important to them) - the 2nd got the highest school merit award and the oldest got the 2nd highest school merit award. Oldest was the better student but he tipped his hand with Drake to say it was his first choice. 2nd son played the field with other schools. Both were Val of their small HS class, but older brother really shined with advanced degrees and being a Rhodes finalist among other things. Both were able to triple major at Drake and had highest academic awards. They both worked very hard at school and at work. Had internships etc.
IDK if you have time to research and find a LAC that may be a fit for your financial situation - that will give the merit to have low family contribution.
Don’t know if your HS counselor has some ready information. If you have attended any college fairs.
Honestly you need to apply to the schools that will be a financial fit, because your original list doesn’t fit your budget.
Seems like you are interested in spreading your wings. Hope things work out but you have to get busy.