Being from Calif is no help.
NMF is national merit finalist based on the PSAT. Did you take the PSAT?
Sounds like your parents don’t want to talk about finances because they have a good income, but maybe because of house payment, car payments or other debt, they can’t pay much or anything for college.
You need a NEW LIST>. Your list is a disaster. Likely you’d get little or nothing from those schools.
And really, you don’t just need a full tuition scholarship…you need MORE than a full tuition scholarship because room board books fees travel and personal expenses will cost about $15k per year.
What is your major and career goal?
Ask your parents how much they CAN pay each year. $5k per year? More? Less?
Even a CC in Calif will cost a couple of thousand.