<p>Hey, I am in the Class of 2010 in Annapolis, but I prospied twice in Fe (plus have friends there), and so I have some experience there too. I'll try to answer your questions as best as I can. </p>
<p>Is there an "in" to fit in?
Honestly, there are people of all sorts on campus. I know there are people who I would normally classify as jockish/cheerleader material, nerds, hipsters, artsy-types, etc. Really, we attract a wide cross-section of students, but what makes it different from high school or somewhere else is that we were all brought here by a common love of learning, books, and the program. In that regard, I have found very few people who are not personable (those who I did generally didn't make it very far into their 4 years) or willing to help others on homework, etc. I am a fairly reserved person and spend an inordinate amount of time in my room or in the library, but I have never had a hard time feeling like I fit in with those around me or at least found some commonality with people. I hope that helps you or makes you feel better. </p>
<p>Are there people who don't drink or dug? Yes, there are quite a few, and not all of those people are incredibly conservative. I consider myself a pretty liberal person, but I do not drink, partake in drugs, or smoke. I have never felt pressured by the people around me to do those things, they respect my boundaries and me as a person. Yes, alcohol plays a significant role in some traditions (Reality) but that doesn't mean you have to drink. I've gone to Reality parties and I'd say the bulk of people were either casually drinking or not drinking at all. So, I don't think you'd have a hard time in that regard.</p>
<p>I remember someone telling me while i prospied that every conversation was about sex--- true?
Hell no. I've had less than a dozen conversations with my fellow students about sex since I came here two years ago. Yes, there are some nymphomaniacs, but you are going to find those everywhere. Don't worry about it. </p>
<p>I've also seen conflicting information about the arts there- there is photography, there isn't ? whats the deal with photography, art, vocal music , choirs, etc?
There is a darkroom in both Fe and Annapolis. There are continuing education classes offered in Annapolis (don't know about Fe) where you can take an arts class once a week, free, and you can pick from a bunch of different topics. We have art studios, a pottery room, etc. So, if you want to do art, we have the facilities.
In terms of music, there is mandatory freshman chorus for both campuses (in addition to the music tutorial in sophmore year) and it is actually pretty awesome. We also have a couple of smaller ensembles including the St. John's Chorus (last year they did selections from Bach's St. Matthew Passion, this year is Mozart's Requiem), Primum Mobile (small select chamber group), Madrigal Choir, and I am sure there are a couple more that I am forgetting. In addition, we have a small chamber orchestra and several smaller chamber groups that combine faculty and students. Basically, if you want to do something, chances are you'll find someone else who wants to do it too, and funding for clubs or study groups is pretty easy to get.</p>
<p>Am i stupid for being nervous? NO. I was nervous as hell. St. John's was not my first choice school. I hated Fe, and I took a risk and went to Annapolis. I didn't know if I was going to stay with it, I was scared I was going to want a traditional education and get to pick a major and things like that....but in the end, it didn't matter. It took me a while to settle in, but I've really come to love the place. You won't be as nervous once you get here, I promise. </p>
<p>How were you able to decide? I only got the option to choose classes this year. Before i was a senior i chose ONE class in my life... I love the program though... is giving up on learning Arabic at college and stuff as worth it as i imagine- or will i regret it later?
It is definitely a trade-off to some degree. I made the decision to apply in the first place because I know my learning style, I know I need small classes where my voice matters, and I like to come up with things on my own, I don't like people telling me what and how to think. I couldn't imagine sitting in a big lecture hall as an anonymous spectator. I had to give up studying some things I really wanted to pursue, but I still find time to read things on my own, and I've participated in a couple of study groups that help with that.
If you want to still take Arabic, I am sure someone else will do it with you. That isn't supposed to sound trite, because I really do mean it. I know I made the best choice for me because I fear that I would have drowned anywhere else, and so yeah, I've given some things up, but in the end, its worth it. I've been able to intellectually grow and mature here in a way I don't think I could have anywhere else. I don't know if other students feel the same way, but I have never heard someone say, "oh, if only I could have taken anthropology" or something akin to that.
In terms of choice, its one of those things you learn to accept, and I think it takes some of the pressure off. I look at my boyfriend (who goes to a different school) and he stresses out about class selection or picking a major all the time....but I don't, and that's nice. You do get some selection, as you get to pick your preceptorials in your junior and senior year, but really, it isn't nearly as bad as you would expect, in some ways, it feels much more liberating. </p>
<p>Do most people own laptops? Most do, yes. But its not a requirement, especially since you cannot bring them to class. Some people have desktops, others just use the computer labs. What type computer you have isn't really an issue, as long as you have something you can type up papers on. </p>
<p>If I want a double or a triple can i have one? Yes. Although in Annapolis, we are in a housing shortage at the moment, so while all freshman are guaranteed housing, you are most definitely not going to get a single. A double or triple is much more likely, but as things settle in the fall, there is some mobility in terms of rooms. </p>
<p>What are weekends like? Weekends are pretty laid back. On Fridays all classes are out at 3:30 and then we have lecture at 8:15. It is highly suggested you go to lecture, but not everyone does....I go when it sounds interesting/appealing. After that, people hang out on the quad or in the coffeeshop, sometimes go watch movies, etc. Saturdays and Sundays are pretty relaxing, not much goes on during the days, people work on homework, relax, go downtown or to the mall. Sometimes there will be special school shuttles to DC or a trip that you can sign up for, but mostly its just decompressing and homework. Saturday nights almost always have something going on, whether its a film society event, waltz party, or reality party. If you don't choose to do those things, there are always groups of friends hanging out with one another and doing their own thing. It is very unstructured, which is nice in a lot of ways.</p>
<p>I hope this helps you a little bit. Feel free to ask more questions if you want or send me a PM, and I'll try to get back to you as soon as I can.</p>