Am I really the bad guy?

<p>My suite mates are complaining that I don't hang out with them anymore. I have tons of schoolwork to do, which is much more important. They party two to three times a week, spend most of their time watching TV, and not getting work done. I have afternoon classes, so I don't hang out with them like I used to, and I'm head deep in school work. So because of that, I spend the most of my time cooped upped in my room getting work done, my roommate too. When, I'm done I talk with my other friends. I'm just tired of them, because they seem immature, and not focused on school, but on non-academic things. Last semester, I used to hang with them often, but I didn't have much work and I was being nice. </p>

<p>Their too attached. Like if I went to eat in the dining hall by myself, it would be an issue because I didn't eat with them. They ALWAYS have to eat in a group, I want to eat when I'M hungry. They have to know, where I go, who I hang out with, and what I'm doing once I walk out the door. Its frustrating, I love being independent, if I wanted that. I could have just went to a local college. I want to transfer (for other reasons), and never see or contact them again. I really don't like them, and I hope me not hanging with them can get the message. But, what should I do? Because If I say I need space, they will call me "fake". If I say I'm doing work, they call me "anti-social". They seem to be stuck in the high school mentality.</p>

<p>The only reasonable thing to do is move out</p>

<p>tell them you’re focusing on not getting stuck working at Starbucks after graduation</p>

<p>and yes I’d probably move out once your lease is up.</p>

<p>Im also in the same situation as you are. Im always going to the library so I can practice nude drawings in the computer without an immature comment from one of my room mates. I don’t hang out with them as often because Im trying to work my ass off for a portfolio Im putting together for an internship. All they want to do is smoke weed and talk about drugs, which Im okay with, but when its all the time it gets really irritating. One night I refused to go to a bonfire with them because I was reading and trying to learn Flash, and they got upset.</p>

<p>I like my friends, but their lack of ambition and academic commitment is incredibly annoying.</p>

<p>You should tell them you want to focus on academics first, then socializing.</p>

<p>Sorry to sound condescending.</p>

<p>It sounds like you don’t get along with them. Nobody is the bad guy, but you should remove yourself from the situation.</p>