<p>It might sound really crazy and ridiculous, but I cant help but feel a little worried that a kid, whom I went to high school and share intense mutual hatred with, might send slandering letters to schools to sabtage my chances. I know I sound like someone who just came out of a mental institution and is still taking pills, or has had too much conspiracy theories to read. But this guy I am talking about is quite a piece of work. It's really a long story. But long story short, I was his captain on a sport team and we didn't exactly see eye to eye on things. And he didn't like that, being the spoiled type he was. He stole my locker's key and had free access to my locker for a whole year. While I was left pondering where I had misplaced my textbooks and homework (granted I was not very orgnized), he was hoarding them in his locker. He also ruined my camera in a very sneaky way so that I thought I broke it myself. I was completely in the dark until his friend told me who's behind all this. At the end, he denied everything and only admitted damaging my camera "by accident". Only after a lot of haggling, did he grudgingly agree to buy me a new camera. I never got any of the other stuff back.</p>
<p>We parted our ways since high school, but that did not stop him from harassing me through cyberspace. I blocked him on Facebook. He then looked me up through my university's directory and emailed me that I owed him some money for the camera. I ignored him. He has since messaged me through a friend of his whom I cant block. I never answered him and I bet he doesn't like that.</p>
<p>I didn't intend for this post to be this long-winded. But my point is that this kid got issues, he really hates me and has gone through a lot to show that. Admittedly, I am paranoid and this worry is far fetched, but do you think I should worry about this guy at all?</p>
<p>Sounds like an a-hole out of this world. I have had a friend a lot like that in HS too, except much less of an a-hole. I even got rejected by all the private schools I applied to due to my H-4 Visa status (like you), but that’s a different matter.</p>
<p>Anyways, you must feel angry. But in your post, you’ve made no implication that you actually tried to retaliate. This is man to man, not man to b***h. If he doesn’t quit bullying you, you’ve got no choice but to proliferate. I would stop playing Jesus and give him a serious tirade, if not a physical beating. I’m tired of a-holes running around the world. they shouldn’t be allowed to reproduce. I’m not trying to get you into trouble. I’m just telling you to stop being his victim, but instead make him yours. It’s a good, sinister feeling.</p>
<p>What he’s doing is harassment and you could sue if you wanted to. Although that may cause more of a problem. I would email him beck, saying if he doesn’t stop, then he will receive a restraining order. Also, don’t worry about him contacting colleges cause even if he does, then all that will happen is they will inquire about the situation with you and you can explain what’s going on.</p>
<p>You are not schizophrenic at all. Lord! You have a stalker of sorts on your hands.</p>
<p>You need to write out the full history of the acts this person has committed against you, with a bit of a focus on what he has done to you since high school. Really take a look at it and evaluate it from both sides, because I will just totally “go there” and say that there are two sides to every story (playing devil’s advocate and all of that). Then you need to call the non emergency number of your town’s law enforcement for further guidance. I also highly recommend getting rid of your facebook page.</p>