<p>Okay, so I have another one of these awkward dating advice questions. I run track and I am interested in this girl from another team, whose town is like 20-25 minutes away. I saw her at the first meet (I would say shes like a 7 or so (attractive, but not anything unbelievable), a year younger than me, and in my league(dating, not track, well track actually too haha)) as she is a pretty good, but not ridiculously good runner (we are about the same talent level-adjusted for guys/girls of course). I’m not very experienced with this whole girl/dating thing, but I approached her and we had a conversation for like 5 minutes or so. She’s seems nice, pretty similar to me, and I thought that she seemed interested in me (again I’m not terrific at this stuff, but this was the general feeling I was getting). Unfortunately, we will only have one more meet (this weekend and I just talked to her this past weekend) that both of our teams will definitely be at before sometime in outdoor (like 3 months away). I’m thinking of talking to her for a few minutes at the next meet and then getting her number, and proceeding from there, setting something up after I get the number. What do you guys think? I know this is a dumb question, but how do you usually ask for a girl’s number? I never really had to ask for a girl’s number before because the previous girlfriends (only 2) I’ve known from school and “May I have your number?” just doesn’t seem right, but what do I know? Thanks for the help.</p>
<p>you have nothing to lose, just talk to her again and ask her for her number.</p>
<p>Next time you talk to her, just ask her. And then program it in your cell and actually call her later.</p>
<p>Good luck! =]</p>
<p>Yeah, actually CALL her. and don't just call to say 'hi'. call to TALK.
also...please DON'T rate girls...we're not show dogs or anything...say "pretty", don't say "7"</p>
<p>:) goo dluck</p>
<p>LOL I did a double take when I saw "she's like a 7 or so", I thought you meant she was actually seven years old.</p>
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<p>Haha, I did the same too. =P</p>
<p>I'm so glad I'm not the only person to read that as a seven year old girl. </p>
<p>OK, so for advice:<br>
Don't just randomly wander up to her and ask for her number. It's creepy.</p>
<p>Start a casual conversation. If it goes well, and is at least 5 minutes long, ask her for her number.</p>
<p>Assuming you get the number, call her. Not like that night, but maybe in the next two days. More than two days and you look like a jackass. </p>
<p>Ask her to go get coffee or something. Don't ask her out on a date first thing. You need to get to know her first. You don't want to scare her off.</p>
<p>Assuming that she goes out to coffee w/ you (preferably several times) after you get to know her and get comfortable w/ her, you can ask her on a date.</p>
<p>Hey bud--
I would give her the, "can I get your number?"
that weekend, I would call her, but only if I was in a more open social situation (a party, group of friends).
Bond. if you like what you get, then you're in!</p>
<p>when you talk to her, talk about a movie or concert or something like that that is coming up that you guys might be interested in. then say something along the lines or we should go together. i can call you this weekend. you knooow something like that. she will most likely offer it and then you have something to talk about when you call her up.</p>
<p>why dont you get her screenname?</p>
<p>or find her facebook!</p>
<p>if you dont have one..you should. its so convenient.</p>
<p>poor boys. we really just like when you show interest. that's all it takes</p>
<p>tell u what bro its really not that hard to get a girls attention and to get her to like you. the ladies are sayin that they like it when you show interest but honestly thats not the way to get one of em to feel attraction for you. girls are attracted to several things: being yourself is the most important thing you should be a normal guy and dont try to be anything else, girls like funny guys a good sense of humor is important when you're in conversation with a female, and finally confidence. women like confidence they like a guy who knows how to carry himself and basically isnt a wussy little b****. my advice would be to be yourself, be funny, be confident and stand up for yourself and you she will be very attracted to you and youll get that number pretty easily.</p>
<p>all that is fairly true, but showing interest is a must. just no too much interest because then it gets creepy.</p>
<p>haha theres a fine line you just gotta hit it right its not that hard really just be natural and dont force things</p>
<p>definitely dont use any lines. those are just straight up annoying. complete turn off.</p>
<p>dude just work the magic</p>
<p>go up, get the conversation going, be like hey you feel like getting something to eat next week since we wont be seeing eachother
score the number
score the girl
use condoms or you score a child</p>
<p>hehe i first read it as 7 years of age also.</p>
<p>Yeah definitely not 7 years old haha. Thanks for the help everyone.</p>
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<p>go up, get the conversation going, be like hey you feel like getting something to eat next week since we wont be seeing eachother
score the number
score the girl
use condoms or you score a child
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<p>I'm so immature, I laughed at the last line. =P</p>