<p>Thumper- thank you for clarifying the grad school stuff. I do know you have to file it every year/that’s the only year it’s good for, and that it’s very different for grad school, but I’ve been getting lots of conflicting information and I just wanted to check. I did read all the information, naturally, but as stated above, sometimes they contradict themselves.</p>
<p>Second- I’m filing the fafsa because some merit scholarships, like the UC Leadership/Alumni ones, require you to submit fafsa regardless of need. I do have a little more than enough for two years at a UC, but I am also planning on going to law school, so why not save as much money as I can on undergrad by trying to get merit scholarships?</p>
<p>Third: We can’t leave LA In this county there is actually a hiring freeze on hiring brand-new nurses. Hospitals don’t have the money to train them and are only hiring those who have done a year or more of professional work. A few private places are hiring, but mostly nursing homes with long contracts and little opportunity to learn. My mother also worked in public health for 20 years (planned parenthood/on the hill, etc) and doesn’t want to enter into a long contract when she will hopefully be able to work at UCLA or something in a year. There are some other issues too- I’m not defending her decisions, just explaining them.</p>
<p>Fourth: She has no income. Is not working, no assets except our house, which she doesn’t own outright. I’m actually make a lot more than her because I’m working two jobs haha. </p>
<p>Fifth: It’s actually two years away . . . I’m a one year transfer. And like I said, I want to save as much of my cash as possible for grad school by getting merit scholarships. I forgot to mention this before, but I AM NOT TAKING ANY FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FROM MY PARENTS FOR COLLEGE. I am living at home now but I pay for my own food/transportation/tuition and books and I will be paying for my own housing and tuition and everything once I transfer in the fall. I would never ever misrepresent my situation to take money from students who actually need it, but I have some qualities that qualify me for merit scholarships and I’m going to try to get as many of those as I can.</p>
<p>Sixth: There are four years of joint tax returns, bank accounts, etc. to document the separation- it’s all very legal and I’m not worried. They had a lawyer draw up a separation contract and on my sister’s financial info(she goes to a private boarding school) they are listed as separated and there have been no questions. My mom is also no longer covered by my dad’s company’s health insurance.</p>
<p>Seventh: Last year at this time I was doing my final semester of high school as an exchange student in Germany. I’m a one-year transfer and I will be attending a UC in the fall. I didn’t bother filing last year because SMC cost me mayyyybe a thousand bucks in tuition and books, which I can pay out of my wages, and I also wasn’t at home then to compile financial info.</p>
<p>mom2collegekids: thanks for specifying that dad’s contributions are income. I wasn’t sure about that and it confused me. And like I said, I’ve been getting a lot of conflicting info (some smc counselors are great and some are idiots) and I just wanted to ascertain I wasn’t inadvertently submitting false info on a form.</p>