<p>I hate have to find myself asking questions about girls, but...</p>
<p>There's this girl in one of my summer classes who's absolutely gorgeous. I think she might be interested in me. I asked her to study with me, and gave her my number, but she didn't call me. I assume it's because she's uncomfortable calling guys she barely knows. Then, just earlier today, she approached me to ask me to study with her. That's got to be a good sign right?</p>
<p>So what I want to know is whether girls typically like to know the guys a little bit first before they're comfortable giving out their phone number. I mean in college, most guys just want to get some tail right? So despite some common dating protocol of asking her out for lunch right away, should I try to become her friend first?</p>
<p>by, the way. she's always with her bff's, and I'm kind of intimidated by them. I don't want to ignore them completely, yet I don't really want to introduce myself to them either...</p>
<p>Most of the girls I know (myself included) don’t like talking on the phone. My friends and I feel more comfortable texting. You might want to try that and don’t get offended about not talking.<br>
Many people like to get to know someone a little better before handing out their phone number. I’m very sparing with who I give mine to.</p>
<p>There’s no general equation to getting a girl. Just play it by ear. If you get the vibe that she’ll be comfortable with lunch, then ask her and make sure to get her number.</p>
<p>asking you to study with her is def a good sign. The fact that you are in the same class and are interested in studying together is a good reason for a number exchange. And if you already gave her your number, you should ask for hers, and then ask her to study with you, and then take it from there.</p>
<p>well I should add that it’s not strictly her asking to study with me. I had first asked to study with her. She didn’t call me, so this was more like a really late make up session (if you will).</p>
<p>and for the record, I showed up 30 minutes late because of stupid reasons. and she wasn’t there. So I have to apologize to her for that the next time I see her. Maybe I’ll get her email this time…</p>
<p>I think she’s still trying to figure out whether or not I’m her type</p>
<p>Are you the same guy who made the thread about your love interest who “hooked up” with another guy? </p>
<p>I say go for this one. And ask her why she didn’t call you back. I know she approached you anyway, but ask her anyway just so she can get more comfortable with you. If she starts looking away and making excuses just hold her gently by the shoulders and tell her “Be honest with me.”</p>
<p>^Nope he isn’t, and that approach doesn’t really work if she isn’t comfortable with the OP…in fact it would PROBABLY creep her out.
Like stated above a lot of girls don’t like talking on the phone. In my time at school I have been around a lot more girls then guys and I can’t think of any of them that would call over texting. Another reason that she might not have called is because something came up or she got tied up in something just like you did when you were late.
As for what to do, just go with what happens…not really a set in stone path for stuff like this.</p>
<p>If the arriving late happened within the last day or two find her on facebook, request her but also send her a facebook message apologizing and explaining if possible. If not wait to see her in class and apologize right away. Either way, don’t ask for email. It’s really cementing the whole study buddy relationship over everything else. Facebook is really a better choice in this situation.</p>
<p>DrewCollins, if she gets creeped out by that, he could always get angry and say “What’s wrong? Are you scared of me? I treat you like a princess and this is how you repay me?” </p>
<p>I never understood why texting was so popular. I’ve sent one text in my entire life and don’t even have texting on my seldom-used cell phone.</p>
<p>She’s probably worried it’ll be awkward talking on the phone or something. I’d text her. Let her know you’re interested.</p>
<p>"DrewCollins, if she gets creeped out by that, he could always get angry and say ‘What’s wrong? Are you scared of me? I treat you like a princess and this is how you repay me?’ "</p>
<p>Right…correct me if I am wrong but I am pretty sure on another thread you stated that you had never dated or anything like that. That said, your post there explains a bit :D</p>
<p>Oh, and don’t take DreamingBig’s advice. If a guy did that to me I’d be creeped out</p>
<p>^See DB! Their you go, lets see how many girls would be creeped out by that!</p>
<p>I’d be a little scared if a guy did that honestly. I probably would just stop associating with him in case there was something seriously wrong with him…</p>
<p>DO NOT TRY TO BE HER FRIEND. Once you are in the friend zone, it will be hard to get out.
The fact that she wants to study with you is a good sign.
Girls do like to know guys better before dating. Just be nice (and not one of those overly sensitive guys) and remember that girls tend to fall for words not looks.</p>