<p>in one of my class there is this chick that i reallu like since the beginning of the year. i try to talk to her during class but it seems like she isnt really into me, even though she talks with me and whatnot. also, she really likes this guy in my class (and completely shows it by trying to flirt with him and whatnot). But the guy doesnt like the girl and thinks she is annoying. he instead likes another girl which i am not really going for. also there is another guy who is trying to make a move on the girl that i like, but the thing is that i think that girl is starting to like the guy who is making a move on her (not me) even though she still likes that other guy. </p>
<p>what i want to know is if i should get over that girl or if i should keep making moves on her for her to try to like me? if i should keep making moves on her, do u have any advice on what to say (conversation starters,etc...) </p>
<p>There is only one thing you can do, ask her out! I missed out on so many pretty good looking chicks in high school, work, and college because I never asked them out. Do it, and don't be afraid!</p>
<p>don't let that deter you from going after her though. if you like her, then gather up all your confidence and ask her to go out to eat or something along those lines. you never know what she'll say till you ask.</p>
<p>I totally realize that fear of rejection is the main reason guys like us never ask chicks like that out, but women dig confidence in guys and you have at least a decent shot. People have a hard time saying no in a situation like that (unless they are cold) so you will probably at least get a date out of it. After that who knows? If I ever get the chance, I would totally be a league skimmer.</p>
<p>From my experiences, the girl you like is always hot, cute, etc., otherwise you wouldn't have a crush on her! (I guess personality counts too <em>eyeroll</em> haha) It sounds like an interesting situation, and you can't 'wait' for the right moment to ask her. You need to make it the right moment and do it. Tell us how it works out!</p>
<p>Just give yourself a confidence boost before you do it. Asking someone out is one of the biggest fears most people have (higher than public speaking or death even)</p>
<p>Do it! Even if you're rejected, trust me, the peace of mind is incredible! And by waiting you're giving the other guy a chance! You know, it could easily just be that she doesn't know you're interested in her in that kind of way. She could just think you're nice, but you're not letting her see you in a more dating kind of way. Girls just don't think all the time "he's talking to me because he's into me" the way guys might (perhaps?) unless it's known to both parties. </p>
<p>Don't plan out an exact speech or something...you will sound like a total idiot. Make it seem informal, not like you thought of conversation starters lol! :p</p>
<p>Don't ask her if she likes Star Wars or sports. No women like these things. Talk to her about some stupid reality show. (Laguna Beach comes to mind) Chicks like that crap for some reason.</p>
<p>"but she is really hot and me not so much so she probably has higher expectations for a guy. u know what i mean?"</p>
<p>DOOOOOD, the hot ones are the easiest to lay...they have lower self esteem, and can be pushed around easier... just don't tell her that you think she's hot, or nothing. Don't get all googley eyed either, you have to make her want you enough to use sex as a loss leader (which is how a lot of hot women use it). Play it cool man, don't let her know a whole lot about you until she is wanting to...and by all means, if she never gets to that point, screw her, there are too many other hot girls out there who would love to play the game that us guys have to play. But if there is one piece of advice I can give you now it is: "do not settle for being 'just friends'" it is the lamest thing you can do to yourself, you will never get her in the sack, and you will ultimately just be the 'nice guy' who has absolutely no "sack" in more than one way.</p>
<p>The who reminds me of myself. If I could go back in time and ask certain women out at certain points in my life that I was totally obsessed with I would. I missed out big time. Sorry the_who, you are going to miss out brother! Imagine what could have been.</p>
<p>PS Celebrian, some chicks do dig sports, but I would never start out a conversation with one unless they brought it up:)</p>
<p>wow just do it dude. #1 thing women look for is confidence in a man. </p>
<p>why do you think you are below ajnybody else. I am for sure not that great looking of a guy, but I know I am better and think i am better than anybody else.</p>
<p>when I was in HS there was this 1 girl which i loved, she liked me 2, but i didnt know that. she game me all these signs that if I knew then what i know now, i would of been in a great situation.</p>
<p>dont live life with regrets, go get what you want, its not always going to come to you.</p>