<p>Docmom- thanks so much for the update. I was absent mindedly reading this thread and then your descriptions of your son’s behavior in high school nearly knocked me over. Our high school junior daughter seems to be cut from the same cloth as your son. Her employer, peers and other adults adore her but she is CONSTANTLY testing us on how far she can go.</p>
<p>Unless DD matures tremendously over the next 18 months, I see a college crash and burn on the horizon. Do you think a structured gap year would have been beneficial for your son or would it just have delayed the process? CC isn’t really an option for us. We live in a small resort town and our CC will be opening up another can of worms.</p>