<p>I’m not going through this, but I have some words of wisdom on the subject. Your parents aren’t being fair. We always expect our parents to be these ever enduring capital-A-Adults, but sometimes they’re irrational and sometimes they’re scared and sometimes they don’t express it in the right way. I know you love your parents, but calling you stupid is NOT okay and making you feel bad about your decision to go to a still in state college is wrong. Try having a mature discussion with them where you may have to be the adult in the situation and let them know how this is making you feel because if the lines of communication don’t get better, they will certainly get worse.</p>