<p>I feel like the longer I wait the more I'm doubting whether I want to leave. I know when I was applying, I was so set on leaving, but now that an acceptance letter feels so far off in the distance I'm not as certain as before. I'm still unhappy here, but it just feels easier to stay..bleh. I just want my letters already.</p>
<p>Speaking from experience, sometimes that feeling comes from doubting your choice to leave... like once you've done everything you need to leave, you feel relieved and less stressed so you think, "Hmm.. maybe I could stay here!" If that sounds like your situation, I'd acknowledge the good things about your school, but then think about how stressed you were before you applied. I'm not saying that you shouldn't re-evaluate, but sometimes when you think about leaving (even if it's a place you really hate), you wonder what it would be like if you stayed.</p>
<p>I was happy once I transferred, but my "what if" feelings didn't fully go away until I went back to visit my old school for a few days. Seeing the college right there, it brought back everything that I didn't like about it. When I returned to my new school, I was even more solid about being there.</p>
<p>Sorry if this post is convoluted, I'm a little tired.</p>
<p>I guess I'm lucky, I knew I wanted to leave after only one semester here. Now that I"m nearing the end of my sophomore year I want to leave more than ever. My current school is just such a bad fit for me that I'll be 10 times happier at any of the schools I'm applying to, even though I certainly do have a favorite. </p>
<p>I am having doubts that I might not get accepted anywhere though, even though it is highly unlikely...</p>
<p>Wow, you just read my thoughts! I'm having second thoughts, as well, especially since everyone I know who was so dead set on transferring (a lot of people, let me assure you) have decided to stay at their respective colleges.</p>
<p>I've been struggling with whether or not to leave, either... I think that's natural, though. It's just a matter of going back to your old pro-con lists (well, I made pro-con lists, but that's just me and I'm a big list maker so) and seeing whether or not those pros and cons still matter.</p>
<p>Best of luck to you!</p>
<p>I'm not having any doubts, I wanted to transfer ever since I got here, and I still do.</p>
<p>^ For truth.</p>
<p>I will miss the full scholarship I'm getting, but even a full ride isn't worth the bleakness of my current school --intellectually, socially, and aesthetically.</p>
<p>never never have a single tiny doubt</p>
<p>I'm having debt while I wait.</p>