<p>1) Virgin
2) Never KISSED a girl
3) Never had girlfriend or a good group of friends (acquaintances don't count)
4) Never been called to hang out/invited to parties</p>
<p>Has anyone been like this in high school, and then have changed drastically in college?</p>
<p>yes</p>
<p>college is college. be free! let go of your past</p>
<p>I recommend you read Notes from a Friend by Anthony Robbins, and if you don’t know who he is, I suggest you watch one of his TED talks on Youtube. What I love about the book is his matter-of-fact manner in speaking about self-improvement techniques, and just to offer you a glimpse into the genius of this small,albeit immensely helpful piece of work, here’s a quote from one of his chapters on decision making. </p>
<p>“So many people are trying to drive into the future using a rear-view mirror to guide themselves, if you do that, you’ll crash” </p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
<p>Man I really hope this idea of “change” is realistic in college.</p>
<p>You choose what you do. If you want to be like that, you choose it. If you want to be social, you choose it. I choose to be like that in high school.</p>
<p>^ I definitely didn’t choose to be like that, but here I am…</p>
<p>I thought I was the only one! You’re not alone, AshwinSundar…</p>
<p>It’s hard to change to in high school, since you’re surrounded by people you’ve known since you were little. They all expect you to play a certain role. But in college, you’ll be around a bunch of people you’ve never met before. They have no idea who you were in the past and they won’t care. It’s all up to you.</p>
<p>this kid posted the same thing in HSL.
-_-</p>