I am not sure I agree that the AO is not impactful on the final decision. After an offer is extended, the AO and the school community work hard to corral in the yes. I would say that if my child was accepted to 2 schools and if they were fairly similar to us. Then the personal connection we had with the AO would have an impact.
The relationship would allow the AO to dig deeper into our decision making process to find out what is the major decision making criteria and where they might be able to address any issues.
They would able to do this without us feeling pressured. The AO then could try to round up the resources to put in front of us to help persuade us to make a decision in their favor. The AO could have parents call to alleviate concerns about a commute. They could have a coach follow up to answer any training questions. Have the science teacher call about summer internships etc. This would mostly be handled and coordinated by the AO.
I think I would be less receptive to this if I hadn’t developed a good working relationship with the AO.
I am not sure I have explained it well in previous posts. I am not discussing the point so much from the parent perspective. I am not saying that in offer 1 I am going to weigh an offer on: #1. academic excellence #2. student body #3. facilities and oh yeah – #4. the AO. The AO is not in the list of pro’s and con’s.
I am saying when I am weighing the 2 offers based upon our criteria ::: the academics, the student body, the facilities, etc, — AND the AO contacts us and asks us how things are going. Is there any questions we would like the school to answer.
In offer 1, the AO and I have a very good relationship so I disclose a lot of my personal thought processes. The AO takes notes and acts on it to address any issues and highlight the benefits.
In offer 2, the AO and I have a professional relationship so I respond with “Thanks for asking. It is a very tough decision. If I have any questions, I will certainly call”.
I personally find that the relationship I have with the point person of ANY organization that I am going to do business with is very important EVEN if I am not going to interact with them much after the contract is signed.
I can not conjecture how impactful the AO is to other parents. I can only say that they were very impactful for us and also a friend of ours.