It sounds like Michigan, probably any large school, is not a good fit for you. That’s a really good thing to know. You might want to think about smaller schools.
D17 is a freshman at an LAC and reports that her professors want assignments turned in on paper. D15 is at a large state uni and has encountered plenty of professors who want everything handed in online. I’m not unfamiliar with Waldorf schools and appreciate your desire to not allow technology to take over your life, but the fact of the matter is that technology is part of life in the 21st century. ( Even for the Amish, per today’s New York Times). But - technology can, as @collegemom3717 says, add immeasurably to your ability to gather information. As for using email or turning in papers electronically, I’m not sure why it matters that much. Do you write your papers in longhand? I suspect very few professors would welcome a handwritten paper. Even if you write your drafts in longhand, and are handing it in in class and not electronically, you surely will need to use a computer to produce the final product.
Different professors will use technology differently. Some won’t use it in the classroom at all. Some will. Not sure many colleges will dictate how/if a professor uses various teaching tools. You might discover that a teacher using a projector to show something to the entire class at once, in a size large enough for every person to really see whatever it is, can actually enhance your learning.
If you don’t want to take class notes on a laptop, then don’t. That’s your choice, as it will be your classmates choice to take notes on a laptop. It will be on you to manage your own use of technology.