I think you’d find that a school that didn’t have online grades, turning in assignments via email, etc. probably is kind of backwards as well in terms of other investments (good lab equipment in the science labs, etc). My kid is a PhD student, and her job is MUCH easier when students can turn in assignments online, check grades online, email her with questions, etc. Shuffling paper is a lot less efficient. And really – you don’t want them to project presentations or materials when teaching a class? Do you want them to use chalkboards still and write out all the discussion points?
You are free to take notes in a paper notebook or go to office hours instead of emailing a professor. But the bottom line is that to function in today’s academic environment AND in the working world after college, you need to build basic technology skills. Waldorf is great to teach you thinking skills, but technology is very useful in the world. It is good that you recognize that you have a skill deficiency now in that area – but the right answer is probably to build those skills, not try to avoid technology. Or else you will graduate from college, and then will struggle in your first job trying to learn those skills while everyone around you already is comfortable with it. I can’t think of tons of white collar jobs that don’t require at least a basic comfort level with a laptop or desktop computer.