You may want to compare costs using only the Estimated Net Price, consistently, without subtracting “self help”. Although a school’s estimate may not indicate a loan, you could take one anyway. It distorts the comparison to apply self help to some estimates but not others.
Here’s the line-up I get after adding loan amounts to the out-of-pocket cost figures in post #11:
$13,538 NE
$10,510 Lehigh
$10,481 NW
$ 8,629 CWRU
$ 8,000 USC
$ 7,000 UV
$ 5,500 Bos U
$ 2,600 Duke
Of course, these estimates are very sensitive to changes in the input (for income, assets, etc.)
I ran estimates using the College Board NPCs for all these schools, assuming:
$60K family income, $30K in cash assets, 3.0-3.09 GPA, top 20%, 1490-1450 SAT taken March 2016 or later, Virginia residence (except for UVa/OOS estimate).
With these assumptions, here’s what I get (with an asterix marking colleges that claim to cover full demonstrated need):
$ 65,906 Bos U
$ 34,020 CWRU
$ 18,004 UVa * (OOS, MA resident)
$ 13,103 NE
$ 11,504 UVa * (in state)
$ 10,800 Duke *
$ 9,996 NW *
$ 9,804 Pomona *
$ 9,525 Lehigh *
$5,656 Bos U (assuming class rank improved to top 10% and GPA to 3.7-3.79)
The College Board NPCs don’t cover USC; I substituted Pomona (another “full-need” California college).
YMMV. Unfortunately, some of these schools will be way out of reach with only a 3.0 UW GPA (unless this number really equates to a much higher one at most other high schools).