Are we missing any schools that we should be lookig at?

Macalester?
Carleton?

You daughter is competitive for Carleton, and Macalster would almost be in the Safety School range

My kid is also looking at Neuroscience, and was looking at an arts minor (though is more interested in dance or creative writing nowadays) and both were on her list. If your kid is a potential National Merit Scholar (which seems very possible, based on her SSI), Macalaster does have National merit Scholarship funding.