Some great suggestions and feedback here. Unfortunately Beloit and Ursinus are way too small. Grinnell was as small as she was willing to go at 1800, and only because it seems to be a great fit in every other way.
@Andrew2199, she already has plans to get to Grinnell a day early so that she can see and hopefully get to climb on their wall 
This is a fairly new hobby for her but she has really taken to it for both exercise and relaxation.
We’ll have a better idea of exact budget once we do taxes and this year’s finances. We might be able to stretch to $30K but it would be tough. And with 2 more kids coming behind her we need to be careful about overextending ourselves.