@NYCMomof3 my kids have been wholly in private (progressive) schools thanks to great financial aid. I am white, am a product of a great private school education but I don’t have the income my parents afforded for my schooling. I wanted to share that for a number of years I was a housecleaner and sometimes I ended up cleaning the bedrooms of my kids schoolmates. 
It wasn’t that bad but I have definitely had some raw moments being seen as the servant. Snort!