Asian guys CAN get white girls! Here's how...

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<p>I've seen so many posts, as funny as it is, discussing the whole phenomenon of whether asian guys can date/get white girls. Some of you already know this, but some of you don't: yes, asian guys CAN get white girls!</p>

<p>How? Confidence. One thing that I find alluring in a guy is confidence. I find that most asian guys (or boys in general) are quiet, soft spoken...perhaps it's because they don't think of themselves as being able to be with a girl who happens to be caucasian? I have observed that a lot of those guys tend to hang out in cliques where they rapidly socialize with girls of their same race instead.</p>

<p>For example, yesterday I went to a dance at my friend's school. We were learning how to waltz and swing. I was paired randomly with another boy, who happened to be a tall asian. I smiled, I introduced myself, and we awkwardly practiced the waltz...but he wouldn't look me in the face! Total turn off.</p>

<p>On the other hand, I have dated an asian male for more than a year, and I am a female who is caucasian. The relationship started because the guy had enough guts to talk to me and ask me out. If asian guys were more open about the idea of dating white girls, then there would be no problem. Being asian does not mean that girls won't date you. I think this applies to other races, as well.</p>

<p>It's all in the mind, this mindset of race-dating-hierarchy!
That's my theory. If you disagree, speak and be heard! (Er, read.)</p>

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<p>^YES YES YES.</p>

<p>You need to be confident. :) Of course, smelling good is also a plus...I love when my guy friends where Old Spice, strange as it sounds. XD</p>

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<p>Old Spice, lol...isn't that for like old people?! xD I don't know, I've never smelled it before, but it was teased on the Jay Leno show...</p>

<p>But yes. Smelling nice and dressing nicely is a big plus, whatever race they may happen to be.</p>

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<p>lo - there's hope after all :)
i'll keep that in mind. (of course, i don't think there's any other girls BESIDES white girls where i live)</p>

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<p>...It's not JUST for old people. XD It smells SOOOOOO good.</p>

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<p>I've had azn boyfriends before. My boyfriends aren't based on race, they are based on personality. </p>

<p>Be nice and be respectful and you can get girls of any race.</p>

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<p>it do depends on individuals.</p>

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<p>I'm glad to see that no one is calling me a racist or is disagreeing too much, ahaha. I feel like a lot of guys (the asian ones) are blaming white girls for being "disinterested", but I think that the guys just need to be more interesting!</p>

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<p>it's the "EYES"</p>

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<p>That attract you or that you don't like?</p>

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<p>I am just saying, a lot of white girls don't like slanty eyes that asian guys have</p>

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but I think that the guys just need to be more interesting!

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<p>whoa, catsushi; way easier said than done (most unfortunately).
there's sorta a catch-22 w/ typical asian guys : we seem unattractive cuz we're shy. we're shy cuz we seem unattractive, </p>

<p>also qtipkorea4u what about our slanty eyes?</p>

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<p>dude, kinda embarrasing but we always get made fun of our slanty eyes >.<</p>

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<p>^^yeah, true that</p>

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<p>Awww by who? I'm not BSing when I think that asian eyes are really pretty. :) Asian boys have cute eyes (haha nothing like boosting your ego by calling your eyes "cute", huh?) They are so dark and expressive. Any kinds of eyes are pretty, really, if you are willing to see that beauty.</p>

<p>I have never heard anyone make fun of asian eyes after pre school. It might just be the west coast? I'm not sure about else where.</p>

<p>D-Yu, how do you know that you are unattractive?</p>

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<p>i usually find other guys make fun of my slanted eyes more than girls do...O.o</p>

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<p>well, I definitely agree with you.</p>

<p>I know my friends like me and i know that they are just having fun times but guys do make fun of eyes more than girls. But compared to caucasian boys, asian boys have very flat nose and small eyes.</p>

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<p>ya in general but again not always the case. for example i hav a pretty sharp nose for asian and relatively large eyes but it looks small cuz its pretty slanted lol.</p>

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<p>Haha well just ignore your guy friends, then. After all, you're not going to date them, are you?</p>

<p>And most girls really go for personality, anyway. They need somebody who can be interesting, and clothes/hair/etc is easier to fix.</p>

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<p>ahh...this kind of thread gives me hopes XD...but usually white girls prefers to date white guys still holds true.</p>