<p>@kikkydee</p>
<p>Correct me if I’m wrong, but I was referring to the Greek system in general, not any individual Greeks. There is a difference. There are more than enough friends and classmates who I can name off the top of my head who are awesome. However, the Greek system is not always all sunshine and rainbows, can bring out worse sides of people, and again and again it has been pinpointed by students and the administration as needing improvement. Because of the Greek system and its hazing and crazier parties at times, there actually have been sexual assaults, hospital visits and lives endangered from overdrinking. There are articles about this in the Brown and White, Morning Call, and other sources as well. Those could be considered the extreme though.</p>
<p>However, I’d also like to point out that the Greek system has also been a fantastic experience for its students. Two of my high school classmates’ lives have genuinely been enriched so much by their fraternity and sorority, and that’s just fantastic for them. When done well, a community can really be created. Each fraternity and sorority performs community service each year–Greek life is one of the main avenues to get involved in community service–and each year they are increasingly taking steps to expand their efforts even further. This year, particularly, I was amazed at their efforts, especially one sorority (I forget the name, but I can find out) that embarked on arguably one of the most comprehensive, thorough, creative, and well-done breast cancer awareness campaigns I have ever seen. I am not denying how quality Greek life can be.</p>
<p>I think the Greek system has potential, but as @mathmomvt has said, it is important to consider college campuses as utopia. It is a grave mistake to deny and brush over valid problems. If these problems are ignored, then it will only foster a more dangerous climate for students and your son. Like I said, there are good and bad aspects of Greek life, and it’s important to address both. Greek life can be more beneficial to the campus and its students, but only if its negatives are addressed. If an actual student would like to supply another perspective (after all, this is what this topic is about), then feel free to join in. I highly encourage it.</p>
<p>Also, I’d like to refer back to the original point of this topic. The point of this topic was to give an honest picture of Lehigh from another actual student’s perspective, a perspective that is often not mentioned until prospective students actually matriculate and experience it for themselves. As there are as many people who are happy here, there are also many people who are merely okay with it or do not like it.</p>
<p>To explain my perspective further, I was a prospective student two years ago and came to this forum to see if there were any honest viewpoints from current Lehigh students. I found only one. While I did appreciate him, he only offered one perspective and only contributed to my understanding of Lehigh a bit. And nearly every other topic had no answers or answers from parents, which any person would not take as seriously as those from an actual student unless if it was financial (let’s be real here–you go to students to hear about the student life).</p>
<p>So that’s why I created this topic, to counter the lack of authentic information about the student experience here and offer a different perspective. It was not for me to take out my frustrations on the school or students but rather to help students and their families see if this college is the right fit for them.</p>
<p>But again, please feel free to contribute and share your or your children’s experiences. It’ll really help make this topic be a place where many perspectives can be shared.</p>
<p>(On a side note, going along with the idea of sparsity of the topics in this forum, just because Greek students haven’t personally made any negative comments on non-Greek students here does not mean they haven’t in other places or in general. And they have plenty of times. So that’s not really a valid comparison because rarely anyone posts in the Lehigh forum.)</p>
<p>@Pepper17 and @mathmomvt</p>
<p>No problem! Happy to help. :)</p>