Ask Questions about Stanford!

So I know there’s been a couple threads out there that have been like this, but I thought with admissions happening today (little less than an hour ago lol) I thought I could help answer some questions that parents and/or newly admitted students may have about Admit Weekend, Stanford classes in general, Stanford atmosphere (from my perspective), dorm life, etc.

To put things in perspective, I’m a sophomore and a declared CS major (concentrating in HCI, but I doubt any of you care about concentrations atm lol). I came in undecided (but certain about some form of engineering) and came to love the intro CS classes and decided to major in it. I do have a part time job on campus, and have taken a majority of the CS core classes. I’ll actually be staffing at a freshman dorm next year, so it’s possible I’ll see some of you guys around, haha.

If you have any questions, I’ll be as active as I can on this post for the next few weeks.

MODERATOR’S NOTE: Any student/parent/alum/friend can answer questions to which they are able to answer.

I have no idea what I want to do (my mom wants me to do pre-med but that’s not happening), but I’ve been thinking about something like journalism? That aside, what my question really is, what resources does Stanford have for kids who are really uncertain about what they want to do with their life? And resources may not be the best choice of word here; what I mean is that, is Stanford an okay place to come in as a Freshman not knowing what the heck you want to do with your life and be on the path to something senior year?

Thanks very much, @thehaakun! It’s great to hear that you’ve really liked the CS courses—how do you find the atmosphere there in general? Are most people in CS/tech really driven/startup-focused/success-oriented/competitive, or are they more relaxed and collaborative, with other strong, nontech outside interests? Yesterday I had a lot of trouble even figuring out how to access my son’s financial aid award, and the experience gave me pause—I couldn’t help wondering whether he would encounter similar difficulties at Stanford that might stem from what I felt was relatively little attention paid to the end user’s experience. I know Stanford is a tech hub, and when we were there, we saw throngs of people on University Avenue who could have come right out of the movie “The Social Network,” but do these people interact well with other students when they’re not talking about CS? How much free time do CS students have to pursue outside interests, hang out with friends (doing something other than playing video games), etc.? On a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being the best, how would you rate the social life of CS students in particular, and why? (Sorry for all these questions, but my son is torn between Stanford and Yale, which seems like it would be a quite different environment.)

Hi @thehaakun, Is it easy to declare CS major? On Stanford website they said you need to find an advisor from the CS department. Is it easy to find someone who agrees to be your advisor? Are there any prerequisites you need to fulfill before you can declare CS major? How about GPA requirement? Thank you very much.

@planner I may be able to share a bit of insight. My d went off to Stanford as a humanities kid, through and through, but gave serious thought to CS because she felt like that’s what she “should” do since the perception is, if you are at Stanford, you must be interested in tech/engineering/math or science.

For her, that lasted about a week. She discovered that there are lots of amazing things to study at Stanford. They have incredible faculty in a wide range of areas and there are students there excelling in an equally wide array of areas. That’s something she talks about often. There are just so many amazing people there who have unbelievable skills at so many different things.

Yes, Stanford is in the heart of Silicon Valley and will always have strong ties with that business community, but one of the things that sets it apart from MIT and Cal Tech is that it also does so many other things well too. And the students run the gamut, from stereotypical nerd to athlete to activist to poet.

You asked about the social life. Again, there are all kinds of options and most of the kids are pretty social. D does everything from hanging out with friends playing board games and ping pong to watching movies with friends in the lounge to going to frat parties. She’s found that, for the most part, whatever she feels like doing, she can find some other friends who want to do the same thing. She’s very close to her dorm mates and happily headed back to Stanford this morning for spring term.

@pacnwmomof2 Thanks very much—this is really good to hear! It sounds like even though Stanford may be best known at this point for CS/tech, the students it attracts are multidimensional, which is really important to us. The social life sounds varied, too—do you know approximately how much time your daughter has per week (except before exams!) to spend on things other than schoolwork (other interests, hanging out with friends, etc.)?

I’ll try answer your questions about the humanities as best I can, @drblack‌ .
@drblack‌ I actually came in thinking I was going to be premed (well, I put down on my application I was gonna be premed) but then decided ultimately that it’s just not the path for me. Freshman are given Pre-Major advisors that also assist you with figuring out what path you want to go on, and your freshman dorms usually have an Academic Advisor that you can go to anytime during their office hours to talk about classes, majors, what you’re interested in, etc. Trust me–a lot of people come in undecided and there are a lot of resources you can draw from to figure out what you want to do. On top of that, dorm staff (like Resident Advisors and Resident Computer Consultants and Peer Health Educators) are upperclassmen, and are always a great source of advice. IMO, I think if you know where to go and who to talk to, it isn’t hard to eventually figure out what you want to do and what you want to try. To answer your question, it’s totally fine to come in not knowing what you want to do. Stanford’s a great place to try out a ton of things–I know one of my friends hasn’t even fully decided what she wants to do. You have time to try classes, but this is something they don’t tell you–you have to move quickly if you want to fulfill major requirements before you graduate. The best resources, though? The upperclassmen. Talk to your RAs and RAs’ friends. They’re your best bet for getting real, solid Stanford advice.

Journalism and the humanities majors though–I’m not familiar with them, but I know a few friends who are into the humanities and they’re having a great time. Lots of essays, from what I see, and their class size is small, but they do enjoy themselves. If you’re into journalism, try out for the Stanford Daily.

@Planner‌ I’ll do my best to answer your questions as thoroughly as I can, but if you have anymore questions, let me know.
I think the atmosphere here is pretty great and supportive. Laidback, yes, but duck syndrome (IMO) is a thing here. A lot of people just seem really chill on the outside but make no mistake, it’s tough here. Engineering/techie majors have hard and time-pressured classes (cramming everything into 10 weeks that most schools do in a semester…it’s fast-paced here. Quarter system is no joke). Within the classes, if you go to office hours for CS classes anyway, I always found a really cooperative and chilled environment. People in office hours are always cool to hang out with because they’re struggling just like you and we found a common way to bond over that, haha. People are always willing to help out. You just have to reach out and talk to them–I would say collaboration and working together on problem sets is pretty common (do watch the Honor Code though. Some classes allow collaboration and some don’t). However, I have seen my fair share of techies that are really startup-focused. Some seem to think they’ll be like the next big thing in Silicon Valley. They’re admirable, but sometimes the startup culture here gets…tiring. For me, anyway. It’s not always in your face, like I personally see the relaxed and collab environment more than I do the startup-ers, but it just depends on who you hang out with.

Again, to answer your question about how people interact when not talking about CS, they do pretty well. Campus life is vibrant and tons of events are held often. It’s definitely easy to find friends who aren’t CS majors, or even want to talk about CS. Freshman dorms in particular make a strong effort to bring freshmen to events to connect.

How much free time do CS students have? That depends on the CS student. Some CS’ers I know of can finish assignments very quickly and have free time to do other things. Others take a long time. It just depends on how you schedule your classes and workload and extracurriculars that defines your free time. Personally, if you’re taking more than 2 engineering classes per quarter, you won’t have a lot of free time. I took a physics class, a math class, and a CS class in one quarter and I nearly died from work overload lol. Had no free time whatsoever. Most quarters though, I’ve had tons of free time to pursue my part time job and extracurriculars and playing video games/hanging with friends.

Social life of CS’ers, on a scale of 1-10…It really depends on what kind of person you are and what classes you take. Some CS’ers have a hugely active social life, attend parties, go to San Fran almost every week, participate in dance groups, acapella, etc. Some, like me (I’m on the introverted side) gain their social interaction from chilling and helping people out at office hours, and then spend most of my time relaxing in my dorm or hanging outside with the nice weather, etc. [I can answer more of your questions about time-intensive classes, if you’d like].

@james111‌ It’s very easy to declare CS. I declared a few months ago and it took me a total of 5 minutes. And, hahaha, it’s so easy to find an advisor, believe me. When you take CS classes here, most of the intro CS lecturers (like Keith Schwarz, Julie Zelenski, Mehran Sahami, Jerry Cain), if you bond with them during office hours it’s not hard to want one of them to be your advisor (most of them say yes, anyway). And you can always change your advisor later. In fact, you don’t even need to know them personally to ask an intro CS lecturer to be your advisor. You could just go up to them, ask, [they’ll probably say yes] and then that’s it. You fill out a form, go to the CS Major Advisor, and then boom, you’re declared. You get some cool free gear too lol.

There are no prereqs to fulfill to declare. You could declare day 1 freshman year if you wanted to. There’s no GPA requirement either. Declaring isn’t hard, trust me. There are no requirements for declaring (that I’m aware of).

@thehaakun Thanks very much—this is extremely helpful! It sounds like intelligent and strategic scheduling is the key to not overloading oneself with work, and your suggestion to @drblack about talking to RAs and their friends for advice is a great idea.

The social life sounds fine (except during overloaded quarters!), and it’s good to hear that special efforts are made to integrate and involve the freshmen. What’s your take on “sophomore slump”—I read in the Stanford Daily that the university was going to make more of an attempt to help out with some of the pressures of choosing a major (for those who are undecided) and, perhaps more important, to help ensure that the structures for developing friends during the freshman year are built on somehow in the sophomore year, when getting together with friends made in freshman year seems to be more difficult (though I’m wondering why this is—is it because people scatter to different housing setups after their freshman year and/or the geographical distance between residences is a hindrance?). What do you think about the proposed residential colleges as a housing option for (as I recall) juniors and seniors?

@thehaakun is it easy to have an active social life and find parties at Stanford?

Don’t want to hijack the thread but, my insight:
@DL43516‌
It depends on what you define as an active social life. It seems like you’re talking about parties. Do you enjoy partying with large groups of people at frat and co-op parties? If so, yes, every weekend and occasionally weekdays there are parties on the row. Wednesdays and Thursdays also have some form of wine and cheese, beer and pretzels, and EBF happy hour. Especially for the first few weeks of the year, freshman often will walk to parties together in large groups of their freshman dorm. As the year goes on, these groups dwindle in numbers, as freshman realize partying isn’t their thing, or prefer to go with smaller groups of close friends.

Other people prefer casual hanging out in smaller settings with different clubs, or dorm friends. So lots of people have smaller “parties” in their rooms which are also fun.

In short, yes it is very easy to have an active social life as a freshman. The first few weeks of fall quarter, everyone will be trying everything, but you need to figure out what you enjoy doing!

@guccigirl thank you for the answer, that was perfect!! My love for Stanford is newly reaffirmed!!!

@Planner‌ Yeah, freshmen dorms have RAs that are trained to help out freshmen and have them open up. And NSO is action-packed with events (I remember thinking there was too many events, and I always felt exhausted at the end of the day from attending so many lol). Overloaded quarters just depends on the person though–I know one kid who takes like 5 engineering classes at once and is doing fine juggling extracurriculars and his social life in the meantime. It just depends on who you are, how you manage your time, how much sleep you want to get, etc.

The sophomore slump…IMO, I’m not feeling it, but that’s probably because I’m declared and already have a set idea/plan of what I’m doing for the summer and the next few years. Once you decide what major you want, it’s not difficult to figure out what classes to take lol. About choosing a major though…I haven’t heard of that plan, but I know they advertise heavily that quarter system allows you to try more classes than a semester system would allow you to. I think eventually though, they do push you to declare–I’ve known some people who declared junior year. In terms of helping you pick a major though…All I can think of is the Academic Advisors in the dorms. They’d help you, I guess?

In terms of reconnecting with friends from freshman year, I don’t think it’s hard? Or difficult? My friends are scattered around campus but we talk to each other online, sometimes have classes together and work on PSets together, have lunch together, etc. I think it’s a matter of communication between friends, tbh. Just make sure you talk to them often, don’t lost contact. Geographical distance isn’t a huge thing lol, if you have a bike to get around you can get to the important spots on campus in less than 10 minutes (and that’s assuming you’re going to the far edges, like from FroSoCo to Mirrielies).

For juniors and seniors, I think the four class dorms are fine (and I do know some people who joined Greek life, so there’s the Row to live on as well). Crothers and Branner are popular East Campus dorms. There’s also Mirrielies, which is the ‘apartment’ style complex and then Suites, which also operates as a similar ‘apartment’ style. Unless you meant something different when you say “residential colleges”?

@DL43516‌ @guccigirl‌ is right. It’s not hard at all to have a social life. NSO is specifically built (at least, from my perspective) to push freshmen out of their bubbles and get them to meet other freshmen. There’s tons of on-campus events you can go to almost everyday. You’ll meet a lot of people in your classes, dorm, events, etc. I wouldn’t even worry about social life here–it’ll come to you.

Hi @thehaakun‌ and @guccigirl‌ thank you both so much for offering your insight!
I have a question regarding the atmosphere at Stanford. I found out recently that I was admitted (ECSTATIC) and am trying to make a decision on where I’d be happiest spending the next four years of my life. Can you talk a little bit about the stress culture at Stanford? I’ve heard that there is a tendency for students to struggle to stay afloat while still trying to maintain an air of control; there is a culture that demands students mask their concerns. What is your experience with this culture? Is there sufficient counseling for students who are struggling with anger, frustration, etc.? How hard would you say classes are-- is it impossible to get good grades? Are the students LEGITIMATELY happy and what type of student do you think thrives at Stanford? (I’m not planning on majoring in science, if that helps. I’m leaning more toward Business/Economics.)

@thehaakun‌. Do you know many history majors? Is the history department exceptional at Stanford? Additionally, are the dorms quiet or are they party dorms?
Thanks in advance for your response.

Thank you so much @thehaakun‌ you’re extremely helpful!
I also wanted to know, what is the SF-Stanford connection like? I mean is it a hassle to take a weekend excursion to SF w/ some friends? I’m asking because originally, I kinda wanted to go to college in a major city (Columbia, lol), but after a Stanford acceptance I’m more than willing to compromise that. I would still love to experience some of the unique cultural gems a city offers tho (I grew up in the suburbs… Although a 40 minute commute to downtown is normal for work, it is a pain for everything else).

It’s about an hour into the city by Caltrain. The station is about 10 blocks off campus but there are shuttles that run around the campus to get you there.

It’s a bit more like a planned expedition than an off-the-cuff decision.

It’s not like Boston where you can roll out of your dorm and be in the pub before the conversation is finished.

@drblack. Many students frequent San Francisco with dorm-mates by carpooling with upper classmen (many have cars) or taking the public transportation…and many go on dates/restaurant hopping with their significant other. It takes about an hour each way by public transportation (due to stops along the way) and much quicker in a car. And don’t forget…depending on your techy vibe you may want to hang out in San Jose which is south of Stanford…or if you have the Bohemian/peace to the world vibe you may want to hang out with the Berkeley crowd in Oakland’s Temescal row of hopping restaurants/pubs…
http://visit.stanford.edu/plan/public_transit.html

Try this illustrative exercise;

Google each of the following;

Stanford pubs

-VS-

Harvard pubs

Many thanks again, @thehaakun! This is all so helpful! Do you think every student needs a bike—approximately what percentage of Stanford undergrads use bikes, and do they bike everywhere, or do plenty of students walk to classes together?

I probably shouldn’t have used the term “residential colleges,” but that’s how I conceptualized them after I read this article about new housing for undergrads that will be available in 2016:

http://www.stanforddaily.com/2014/09/26/stanford-university-to-build-new-undergraduate-residences-by-2016/

From this article, it sounds like Stanford is making a concerted effort to facilitate socializing through well-designed residential spaces. What do you think of this, and how does it differ from what currently exists? I really like that Stanford seems to have perceived an area that could use improvement and is taking action!

Thanks again for all your great answers!