Asking girl to prom over the phone...

<p>wow...no need for all that....it's just a prom...
not to mention, all of the suggestions are very corny.</p>

<p>It do think it's terrible that guys would even think of asking a girl to the prom to simply "get laid".</p>

<p>"ask her to go out on a date with you. tell her you guys are going to the movies but end up at a park where a cnadleight picnic awaits you. pull a rose from behind you and pop the question. another idea, if thats too much....go to her house, ring the doorbell. ask for her. when she comes down, be all....i knew i shouldnt have doe this....and put on ur sunglasses...she will eb what are u talking about. be all, everyone time i look at u, ur beauty blinds me...these shades are a must....and then pop the question with a rose"</p>

<p>Something about this just screams 'date-rapist' to me...</p>

<p>Really, just make sure you're clear about your convictions. Don't try to act like friends or whatever if you're trying to get a girlfriend. Don't supplicate to her and shower her with gifts or anything. Once you're friends, it's hard to all of a sudden try to make it a romantic relationship, girls are like that. So, ask her out, maybe to hang out at your house if you know her well enough. Otherwise, go to a cheap lunch or to a coffee shop. Something that's low-pressure and casual, but a place where you can have a nice conversation. While on the date, let her know what you want. Maybe lightly touch her arm, later her ear and cheeks, maybe her leg if you're close enough. This is called kino. It's generally effective in building attraction, but it definitely will show whether or not she's interested. If she's not, she'll push you away. If she responds to the contact, she's most likely interested. Try to build up to a kiss. It should seem pretty natural if she's into you. If you get that far, you should be in the clear. Ask her if she wants to go to prom with you.</p>

<p>sdskyle,
Lol......yea....that's what I thought too.... it's really freaky that way.</p>