Greetings and salutations! I too am a devoted and passionate amateur astrophysicist. Astrophysics is a quite unique and out-there (pun definitely intended) major. Personally, I have had a rather difficult time explaining to my father why I want to study this topic, and what I can do with a degree in it.
After thorough research, I concluded that it can be rather difficult to find a job outside of academia; but, that is okay! That is what being an astrophysicist is all about. Embrace the insatiable curiosity burning in your soul; reach for the stars!
In my search for schools, I looked for universities with a strong phyics background, but a sound astronomy program too. My plan is to also do a double major: first, in phyics; second, in astronomy. After which I plan to apply to graduate school to work towards a PhD in Astrophysics. This way, I can say I have a degree in two fields that are broader in scope than simply astrophysics.
It is worth noting that many people who study astronomy and physics can often find jobs in computer science, mathematics, engineering (though it can be boring to me), and other related fields. You are not restricted by your major(s), especially in STEM fields. Furthermore, many astronomers and astrophysicists tend to have side gigs like writing books, creating videos and tv shows etc.
Finally, money is a concern for everyone, as we all wish to be better off financially; but, money cannot buy true happiness, that comes from the heart. If your passion is learning about space and leading discoveries on that topic, then pursuing that major is worth it to you, even if your parents don’t understand your choice (like mine).
I wish you luck fellow human! Hope to see you among the stars someday!
Sincerely,
S. Beeching
P.S.
Information regarding astronomy as a career:
https://aas.org/careers
Information regarding astronomy as a major:
https://aas.org/learn/planning-your-education